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Old 10-11-2013, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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Plenty of sexy chicks running around Metro Detroit and they're not all on the arms of guys making 6 figures. Not all hot women are soulless money chasers. Hell chitown too.
Hi. I don't know you so I don't know you but you seem cool in my book.

Are you a brotha? I ain't hatin', but generally--as in 95%--ya'll like them a lil thicker than we do...Ya'll really ain't about that 5 ft 9 125 pound blondie with +2s...funny, but the sistas i know that get the work done mess white dudes. Look at some of the black athlete's ladies and they are normally bigger.

I am not hatin, to each their own.

I am messin with this sister now in Vegas that puts Halli to shame..no joke, like the finest dime I seen all month.

I wish we could compare ladies to orientate. When I say beautiful I mean stop traffic cause a pile up looks...not like pretty.

Re detroit...never been, but CHi town has some pretty nice ladies that are somewhat humble....midwest down to earth types...but the top birds there are just like they are in other places....

again, it makes sense, you use what you got to get ahead...nobody wants to be poor and struggle...it's like saying if someone can make 50k or 200k they will take the 50k all things equal....
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Old 10-11-2013, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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What's funny is while he's paying for it, she's getting sexed up on the side by the bad boy construction worker making $50k.

Alpha fux / beta bux
LOl..maybe, but when I call she comes...as I said earlier, I don't really care what she does not in my presence...they are party girls...not wives....they always take the provider over the hs sweetheart...

And don;t get it twisted...I don't pay for it...I fund the fun and enable a lifestyle when they are with me..if they are short on rent they need to find the next trick because I ain;t that guy.
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Old 10-11-2013, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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Eh - to each their own. I'm just clarifying why he thinks that "10's" only exist in certain cities and why it apparently costs so much to be a "10." I think that beautiful women are everywhere.
Thanks, you have captured the essence of what I consider an 8 and up....although there are some naturally beautiful women out there...and plenty of pretty ones everywhere....but stop traffic cause a pile up ones are rare..
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Old 10-11-2013, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Thanks, you have captured the essence of what I consider an 8 and up....although there are some naturally beautiful women out there...and plenty of pretty ones everywhere....but stop traffic cause a pile up ones are rare..
This is why people say beauty is subjective. There are many men that are repulsed by the women that you would consider a "10" and you would find the women that they consider to be a "10" average. You have a very specific type - you think they are the hottest thing around and other people really hate that fake look. Like I said - to each their own - but I just think it bears remembering that your specific idea of a "10" is not universal but particular to you.
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Old 10-11-2013, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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This is why people say beauty is subjective. There are many men that are repulsed by the women that you would consider a "10" and you would find the women that they consider to be a "10" average. You have a very specific type - you think they are the hottest thing around and other people really hate that fake look. Like I said - to each their own - but I just think it bears remembering that your specific idea of a "10" is not universal but particular to you.
No, beauty is universal and standardized....talk to any casting director or model scout and they all identify certain traits which equate to desirable beauty....so no, your 5 ft 9 pound pot bellied balding husband is not George Clooney...you may love him to death, but he is not beautiful...well to others.

we all think beyonce is fine, we all think irnya shayk is smoking, we all drool over selma hayak...we have a thick one, a skinny one, and a slightly curvy one...they are all undeniably hot..not in the eye of the beholder...
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Old 10-11-2013, 05:00 PM
 
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No, beauty is universal and standardized....talk to any casting director or model scout and they all identify certain traits which equate to desirable beauty....so no, your 5 ft 9 pound pot bellied balding husband is not George Clooney...you may love him to death, but he is not beautiful...well to others.

we all think beyonce is fine, we all think irnya shayk is smoking, we all drool over selma hayak...we have a thick one, a skinny one, and a slightly curvy one...they are all undeniably hot..not in the eye of the beholder...
Well Played.
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Old 10-11-2013, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Hi. I don't know you so I don't know you but you seem cool in my book.

Are you a brotha? I ain't hatin', but generally--as in 95%--ya'll like them a lil thicker than we do...Ya'll really ain't about that 5 ft 9 125 pound blondie with +2s...funny, but the sistas i know that get the work done mess white dudes. Look at some of the black athlete's ladies and they are normally bigger.

I am not hatin, to each their own.

I am messin with this sister now in Vegas that puts Halli to shame..no joke, like the finest dime I seen all month.

I wish we could compare ladies to orientate. When I say beautiful I mean stop traffic cause a pile up looks...not like pretty.

Re detroit...never been, but CHi town has some pretty nice ladies that are somewhat humble....midwest down to earth types...but the top birds there are just like they are in other places....

again, it makes sense, you use what you got to get ahead...nobody wants to be poor and struggle...it's like saying if someone can make 50k or 200k they will take the 50k all things equal....
I'm half black actually, but hardly talk in the condescending way you described. I was raised in a predominantly white and wealthy community outside of Detroit. My pic is in my profile. I feel I have an edge because most people can't tell I'm half black and when girls find out, I get an exotic vibe in their eyes. I've dated majority white, but have been with all the major races lol.

I'm sure with your money you get more 10s than I ever will, but I've still pulled good looking women without being loaded
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Old 10-11-2013, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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And please note, I think it's a waste of time to date someone for anything other than how they make you feel...looks should be the absolute last thing we should look for in a mate...my current gf is cute.. but you would say she is a 5...I met her in a comp sci class and we do problem sets together, finagle Medical Marijuana prescriptions, and watch Mr. Bean...we eat pizza, go to the movies, and play Xbox together...she has never been in a night club, wears 76 dollar shoes from Macy's. She wears make up sometime but not very much...she even bakes me cookies...

I am happy with her...much more so than the leeches in vegas...

she is who i value and respect...not someone looking to come up off my insurance payout...

I am simply commenting on how the hotties act, not blessing their actions.
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Old 10-11-2013, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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No, beauty is universal and standardized....talk to any casting director or model scout and they all identify certain traits which equate to desirable beauty....so no, your 5 ft 9 pound pot bellied balding husband is not George Clooney...you may love him to death, but he is not beautiful...well to others.

we all think beyonce is fine, we all think irnya shayk is smoking, we all drool over selma hayak...we have a thick one, a skinny one, and a slightly curvy one...they are all undeniably hot..not in the eye of the beholder...
I've seen one of the women that you were drooling over. Most of the posters on here thought she was completely fake looking. She had fake boobs and wore a ton of makeup. That "porn star" look is not universal and standardized. Many people prefer someone who looks more natural. A naturally beautiful woman doesn't need a ton of make up, plastic surgery, and designer clothes to look beautiful. That was my only point. You don't need a lot of money to be beautiful - you just need to have good facial features and a nice body.

My husband? I don't even know what you are talking about...

And I'm an actress - so I understand "beauty." My point is that the look that you seem to prefer is not the look that most people seem to prefer.

And the celebrities you listed - not ALL men drool over ALL of them. That's just a fact of life. I don't think most people would call any of them unattractive - but not every man would consider all of them a "10."
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Old 10-11-2013, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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I've seen one of the women that you were drooling over. Most of the posters on here thought she was completely fake looking. She had fake boobs and wore a ton of makeup. That "porn star" look is not universal and standardized. Many people prefer someone who looks more natural. A naturally beautiful woman doesn't need a ton of make up, plastic surgery, and designer clothes to look beautiful. That was my only point. You don't need a lot of money to be beautiful - you just need to have good facial features and a nice body.

My husband? I don't even know what you are talking about...

And I'm an actress - so I understand "beauty." My point is that the look that you seem to prefer is not the look that most people seem to prefer.

And the celebrities you listed - not ALL men drool over ALL of them. That's just a fact of life. I don't think most people would call any of them unattractive - but not every man would consider all of them a "10."
Just stop when you are ahead...you wont win this argument... you can find a freak that think Roseann Barr is hot...lol....please, baby...
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