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Old 06-12-2008, 11:40 PM
 
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this goes to the guys...do you tend to have a bond or some type of connection to the girl you lost your virginity to orrr will always have feelings for her, and what kind of 'feelings'? i know many girls can, but am wondering how it is for the guys. as in a relationship were at one time you thought you loved the girl then you realized that you didnt when you found the love of your life...
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Old 06-12-2008, 11:45 PM
 
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Old 06-12-2008, 11:48 PM
 
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come on!
what!?

this is something i need help on understanding, so spill!
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Old 06-13-2008, 06:22 AM
 
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yeah, i would say i have a connection. I lost it to a very close friend because we felt if anything were to happen that, at least we always knew we would be best buds. It was a good choice. better than doing it and then potentially never knowing the girl again. I might be a rare case, but i definitely have a bond with my friend now. And yes relationship wise we have been through a few people after...but we still BS with each other all the time...its a good healthy relationship.
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:03 AM
 
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come on!
what!?

this is something i need help on understanding, so spill!
Maybe the poster reacted that way because it appeared that you assumed all the guys on the forum lost their virginity to girls. :shrugs:
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:23 AM
 
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this goes to the guys...do you tend to have a bond or some type of connection to the girl you lost your virginity to orrr will always have feelings for her, and what kind of 'feelings'? i know many girls can, but am wondering how it is for the guys. as in a relationship were at one time you thought you loved the girl then you realized that you didnt when you found the love of your life...

It depends. I lost my viginity at age 15 to a 40 year old woman on a pool table. I actually had no idea what she was doing at first. While it was a pretty wild time (I mean, we're talking 6 ball in the corner pocket here), I have no particular fondness for her as she was half drunk.

On the other hand (and I'm not trying to be funny), if it were Julie (the back seat love of my high school life), who I laid repeatedly later on, it might mean a little more to me.

Man, talk about brining back memories.
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:27 AM
 
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Other than the memory of the moment............nope
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:46 AM
 
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I haven't "lost" it.

...I know EXACTLY who has it.

And yes, there's some kind of bond there...
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:49 AM
 
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btw I didn't say anything to her about being a virgin,I just dived in and did it.

Already told you in another thread,I flat out told her it was only for one night and I didn't want her phone number or anything after.

Great experience,I remember her,but don't have a connection to her emotionally.
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Old 06-13-2008, 07:55 AM
 
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...I remember her,but don't have a connection to her emotionally.
How about spiritually?
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