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AT-AT28 · 10-13-2013, 01:46 AM

Fellow geeks and nerds, don't waste you youth on sitting in front of computer. Get out of the chair and away from the monitor and get out!!
I made a lot of mistakes and wasted SO much time in my years being a computer and gaming geek and I wish so much I did things differently!. Don't make the mistakes I made 10 years ago. Avoid my hard earned and lonely lesson and make something of yourself! I wasted so much time and so much of my youth playing games and ignoring the outside world. Now im older, fatter and balder and am single still after 3 years. Explore the world, meet more people, travel and meet tons of women and get experiences with younger women that I never did. Take better care of your better and enjoy being young and being able to be with younger women. Now being 33, i'm so regretful....

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lilyflower3191981 · 10-13-2013, 03:42 AM

Good to see you again. Sounds like you are having fun. =)

Take care and good luck.

Royalite · 10-13-2013, 04:49 AM

You're still pretty young! Good job getting out there and doing something with your life now

funymann · 10-13-2013, 05:44 AM

I am not sure what the question is but if that is you running in the mud I don't think you life was wasted.

There are plenty of girls who would date you.

Trust me, women are attracted to older guys anyways, it gets better when you age.

BradPiff · 10-13-2013, 05:45 AM

The guy who created FB was on computers during his youth and look how he turned out

I'm surprised he married the girl he did though

LW4 · 10-13-2013, 06:27 AM

It's the Star Wars as an adult....that is a give away.

Had you used Smokey And The Bandit or Dukes Of Hazzard things would be different.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nZZPalU...%3DnZZPalUHlxc

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GooEQOZ...%3DGooEQOZHdyI

The nerdy gamer types NEVER get it.......

birdinmigration · 10-13-2013, 07:01 AM

It could be worse, you could have had a World of Warcraft addiction, then you wouldn't even have the self-awareness to post this.

Lulz at all the selfies. Also at the "younger women" comment. But your statement is solid, and you are still pretty young.

bulmabriefs144 · 10-13-2013, 07:40 AM

Actually, he seems better adjusted than me.

JJS99 · 10-13-2013, 07:50 AM

I went to bars and cubs, parties, get togethers a plenty in my 20s and 30s. I had a pretty big social circle. And I didn't get women either. I was around women all the time.

But for you, you were a decent looking kid. I'd say you could have used some of that time to approach women, but you also have to be yourself. Geeky is big these days. There's lots of female geeks. A lot of geeky guys have no problems getting GFs. It's more about looks.

jillabean · 10-13-2013, 07:54 AM

Don't be so hard on yourself OP. It looks like you spent time doing a lot of things you enjoy--and isn't that part of what life is all about? Plus, you are still young and good looking: you have a genuine smile and there is something about your eyes (those are the first things I tend to look at and I am sure others do as well). Honestly, you look better to me at 32 than the earlier, younger picture where you are sullen.