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After reading more of your posts, I realized that you are more upset about him being "independent" with you. Without him, you can't afford a place on your own and since he is so willing to live with his father, the likelihood of him moving with you now is very low. So if he lived with you and your father, he would be so uncomfortable that getting an apartment would be the best option. So the real reason why you can't deal with him moving is for your own benefit.
After reading more of your posts, I realized that you are more upset about him being "independent" with you. Without him, you can't afford a place on your own and since he is so willing to live with his father, the likelihood of him moving with you now is very low. So if he lived with you and your father, he would be so uncomfortable that getting an apartment would be the best option. So the real reason why you can't deal with him moving is for your own benefit.