Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:07 PM
 
15 posts, read 31,411 times
Reputation: 30

Advertisements

Would you be ok if your spouse went on an overnight trip with another married friend of the same sex AND a single friend of the opposite sex? For example, two married women (without their husbands) and a single man plan an outing which includes drinking and staying overnight in a hotel. Two separate beds but in the same room. If that isn't ok in your book, would you say it was ok with certain stipulations or just not at all? What if it was two single women and one married man (or vice versa)? Does that make a difference?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:10 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
13,520 posts, read 22,128,778 times
Reputation: 20235
Yes, because if I didn't trust my spouse, I wouldn't have married the person in the first place.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:14 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
11,199 posts, read 9,083,522 times
Reputation: 13959
why are they all sharing one room??

alcohol = trouble.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:19 PM
 
15,714 posts, read 21,068,969 times
Reputation: 12818
No, I wouldn't. Why are they all sharing the same room?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:21 PM
 
15 posts, read 31,411 times
Reputation: 30
I don't know why they're sharing a room. My guess is to save some money?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:22 PM
 
Location: palmsprings
324 posts, read 441,066 times
Reputation: 405
Dont mind the one room , the situation is already questionable. When you are married , sure , you have to trust you spouse but there are some things you just Dont do with out your partner being involved as well . Sure your spouse trust you , but generally it's not good you not only put yourself in the questionable situation, also put the thought in your spouses head wondering " oh jeez what is he /she doing right now? I know how he/she gets when intoxicated , should I worried ? I should give her/him a call " ring ring ring . No answer .. now the real issue begins. Even if your spouse seems to not care or worried , oh trust me the idea is in the head .

Last edited by superdav; 10-19-2013 at 06:25 PM.. Reason: typo
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:24 PM
 
15,714 posts, read 21,068,969 times
Reputation: 12818
Quote:
Originally Posted by Elelsee View Post
I don't know why they're sharing a room. My guess is to save some money?
What is the purpose of this trip?

It just seems odd. I've gone away with my female friends and we've shared a room but tossing a male friend into the mix would be handled differently.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
11,199 posts, read 9,083,522 times
Reputation: 13959
Quote:
Originally Posted by Elelsee View Post
I don't know why they're sharing a room. My guess is to save some money?
is this your husband or wife doing this?? IMO, i would expect my significant other to not put themselves in a messy situation. That scenario is just a bad scenario in the making. What does this outing include?? drinking, dancing, gambling, etc?? also, why are you not included?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:24 PM
 
6,732 posts, read 9,994,575 times
Reputation: 6849
It's fine. I don't hang with cheaters.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-19-2013, 06:28 PM
 
15 posts, read 31,411 times
Reputation: 30
Quote:
Originally Posted by The Ryu View Post
is this your husband or wife doing this?? IMO, i would expect my significant other to not put themselves in a messy situation. That scenario is just a bad scenario in the making. What does this outing include?? drinking, dancing, gambling, etc?? also, why are you not included?
No, not anyone I'm involved with. The outing is specifically to go out gambling and drinking for fun. The spouses of the married people are on their own trip away from home (although I don't think they're with anyone of the opposite sex).
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top