I'm too weird to be in a reltionship... (women, children, ugly)

[superdav]

Castile !!!

[Tasteslikepurple]

Originally Posted by kawaiivictim

Everyone's weird.


There's acceptable weird (the quirky cute weird) and then there's me..

Lmao! I´m sure you'll find another lovely oddball to be happily weird with. Give it time!

[kawaiivictim]

Originally Posted by Tasteslikepurple

Lmao! I´m sure you'll find another lovely oddball to be happily weird with. Give it time!

I did once, but I was ugly and relatively (probably the last year) sane.

Now I'm better looking, but probably nuts.

[superdav]

So explain this ugly/sane and pretty/crazy theori

[Eccentric_Bear]

All sorts of oddballs manage to find someone before they kick the bucket. I doubt anyone is too weird for a relationship (except me of course).

[Prince_Frog]

Dr. jekyll and mr. hyde?

[exnj1970]

Originally Posted by kawaiivictim

And I'm not the cute kind of weird, I'm like the Michael Jackson kind of weird(not in the false accusations kind of way) What's a woman with Peter Pan syndrome even called? Is there a name for it? I am definitely morphing into an adult child, and I'm not too upset about it.

I'm relatively attractive, but I'm starting to think "being weird" is a silent deal breaker that no one really talks about, but everyone seems to agree on.

I think I like you. I have been turning weird in only the last 5 years,so that adult child part resonates with me.In my teens-mid 30s I was serious,straight laced and no fun.

But then I realized, Who am I trying to impress? No wife,no kids, no real responsibilities,why not let the freak flag fly a little?

I am so much happier this way.

[kawaiivictim]

Originally Posted by superdav

So explain this ugly/sane and pretty/crazy theori

I wasn't necessary ugly, I just became self aware. Which I must say, is THE WORST thing that has ever happened to me so far.

Became self aware, made myself better looking, lost some sanity in the process. I'm ok enough to notice something's wrong.

Became overly critical of self.

Isolate oneself for months to make physical improvements, end up bat**** and vain.

I was always weird to begin with, but I was the "normal" weird where it was cute and acceptable.

Now I'm ...

[Neemy]

Originally Posted by superdav

So explain this ugly/sane and pretty/crazy theori

[L'Artiste]

Originally Posted by kawaiivictim

And I'm not the cute kind of weird, I'm like the Michael Jackson kind of weird(not in the false accusations kind of way) What's a woman with Peter Pan syndrome even called? Is there a name for it? I am definitely morphing into an adult child, and I'm not too upset about it.

I'm relatively attractive, but I'm starting to think "being weird" is a silent deal breaker that no one really talks about, but everyone seems to agree on.

OMG I love Michael Jackson . But I believe the Peter Pan girl is called "the maniac pixie dream girl" aka real like Zooey deschanel. Apparently sometimes it could be good , it brings back feelings of nostalgia for men (see book: The Art of Seduction by robert Greene)