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It's fine to ask in text. It makes it more casual, and that's a good thing .
This sounds like a good idea. If he asks why you're asking, you can always explain that you had a bad experience with the last guy you were with, so you wanted to clarify.
This sounds like a good idea. If he asks why you're asking, you can always explain that you had a bad experience with the last guy you were with, so you wanted to clarify.
Should I text him this? Hey just wondering if were bf/gf? I even have no clue what to say. Im really bad at this.
OP is right to seek to define the relationship because exclusivity is never implied. To state otherwise is a reasoning fallacy. Until there is an exclusivity talk, no one is under any moral or ethical responsibility to not see anyone else. Until there is an exclusivity talk, whoever else someone is seeing is no one's business. Someone more relationship minded will tell you how to approach it, hopefully.
In the past I've taken women out on weekend trips and they assumed that we were exclusive when we were not, much to their heartbreak later on. I'd be sharing time with someone and taking her out on dates for weeks or months; and she would just assume that we were gf/bf, when nothing of that sort was said and I was casually dating multiple people with no intention to be exclusive with anyone.
The next time you go out, just say something like, "Ever since we started dating, I have had so much fun. I really don't even want to go out with anyone else."
If he says, "Cool!" and leans in to kiss you, you're good. You also could then say, "What about you?"
Don't text it, because then it's like one of those grade school, "Do you like me? Check yes or no." notes.
Besides, if for SOME reason he does not get your text and doesn't answer right away, you'll be agonizing over that too.
The next time you go out, just say something like, "Ever since we started dating, I have had so much fun. I really don't even want to go out with anyone else."
If he says, "Cool!" and leans in to kiss you, you're good. You also could then say, "What about you?"
Don't text it, because then it's like one of those grade school, "Do you like me? Check yes or no." notes.
Besides, if for SOME reason he does not get your text and doesn't answer right away, you'll be agonizing over that too.
TALK to him.
Im not really good with face to face relationship conversation. Im afraid Im just gonna ruin it.
How long have you been dating?
I would ask after a month. Some guys are shocked when you ask. If they say let's just keep dating and see how it goes, break it off. They are stringing you along.
How long have you been dating?
I would ask after a month. Some guys are shocked when you ask. If they say let's just keep dating and see how it goes, break it off. They are stringing you along.
Two months and we just got back from a weekend trip together.
Im really bad at this. Ive been wanting to ask him but I just couldnt make myself do it. We spent time from friday till sunday. I didnt bring it up and now I hate myself for not doing it. I think hes into me because he was happy spending the whole weekend with me right? I dont know what to do. I dont want to just assume that were together eventho it feels like we are.
Let me guess, you "couldn't make yourself" talk to him, but you had no trouble getting naked and having sex, right?
Your "status" with him is something you should have made sure of BEFORE you had sex if having a real relationship was your goal.
Fingers crossed that he's not just looking at you now as a booty call.
Im not really good with face to face relationship conversation. Im afraid Im just gonna ruin it.
You're having sex with the guy but don't know him well enough to have a casual conversation with?
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