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Old 12-31-2013, 08:31 PM
 
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A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him I'm sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"
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Old 12-31-2013, 08:35 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Wow! Be grateful he is moving away and go seek help! Sorry, but you seem to be pretty mixed up!
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Old 12-31-2013, 08:40 PM
 
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Wow! Be grateful he is moving away and go seek help! Sorry, but you seem to be pretty mixed up!
I agree. He's a total "mental" manipulator! You don't need a guy who plays head games in your life!
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Old 12-31-2013, 08:41 PM
 
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A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"
You should say, "bye freak!"
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Old 12-31-2013, 08:42 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Walker Ten View Post
A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him I'm sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"

I'm not sure the left hand knows what the right hand is doing in this situation.
You both sound quite immature and just downright crazy.
I'm unsure exactly who is dodging the bullet on this one.
When the left hand actually figures out what the right hand is doing you may be mature enough to seek a relationship. Until then do your homework, stay out of trouble, go to bed early and quit trying to sit at the adults only table.
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Old 12-31-2013, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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OP, are you on something right now?
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Old 12-31-2013, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Originally Posted by Walker Ten View Post
A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him I'm sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"
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Old 12-31-2013, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Keystone State
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Lightbulb You are right

Don't mean to sound harsh, but no he doesn't love you, count yourself blessed
and move forward
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A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him I'm sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"
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Old 12-31-2013, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Originally Posted by Walker Ten View Post
A guy told me "I wouldn't talk to you until you start loving yourself!"

After some time he asked if I would sleep with him. I said yes. Then he got mad that I got so many conditions so I said he must think so lowly of me. So he said "I was just testing you."

Then he got angry and said "I thought you love yourself. Why would you sleep with me when you barely know me? What if I'm a killer? I could have killed you. Show some self respect so people would respect you."

He said a lot of things so I confessed I love him and he said

"HOw can you love me when you love another guy? Do you just love anyone?

I told him I got over that guy and he said "If you don't love me, why did you go to his work? I saw you. You're an adult and you act like a teenager. You have no basis for loving him bec he isn't your friend and you have no basis for loving me. IF I only knew you used me as a backup for him. I don't love you. Don't love me because you don't know me."

The day after that I told him I'm sad bec he's moving to another state and he said "Why are you sad? You don't love me anyway, right?"
This dude is nucking futs I wouldn't even talk to him anymore, he's crazy.
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Old 12-31-2013, 09:51 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Eff men. Lol
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