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Old 01-08-2014, 01:03 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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nope. asscrack + cell phone = social media/facebook
Don't forget the Sharpie art!
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Old 01-08-2014, 04:30 PM
 
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Was no talk among the family "nobles (the older family members that usually set up the family holidays)" going on? I could actually see that with happening withing my family, but in the kitchen there would be a conversation of how inappropriate it was. Even if nothing is said in front of everyone directly I'm surprised nobody had a talk with the host about how to absolve the inappropriate situation.
Lol family nobles.

I'm sure there will be lots of chatter next Christmas!
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Old 01-08-2014, 06:18 PM
 
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My wife would laugh Not going into details.

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Old 01-08-2014, 06:22 PM
 
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Kind of reminds me of the time me, my Brother and his Girlfriend was setting in a Bar. Our Cousin comes in, my Brother takes off with her. I take off with his Girlfriend. Me and her were close for years.

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Old 01-09-2014, 12:46 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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The problem is clearly not the lap incident.

The problem is that Mary is with a ginormous douche.

You need to back away and disengage yourself from this couple IMO.
He's douchey, no doubt. I like Mary, I tolerate John. But I'm not THAT close to either one of them to have to disengage. Truth be told, if John was out of the picture, I would get a lot closer to Mary. I suspect others feel the same way. She really is a good person.

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No, John is the douche.

Mary is just pathetic for putting up with him
I wouldn't say pathetic, but I'm sure she feels that way.

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Does he also hold all those others who are "like a daughter to him" on his lap, too? Ew. Just...ew.

Nobody likes that "creepy uncle" type.
I've never seen it, personally. But he latches on to people, like I said before. I've heard him say "that's my lil girl" on several occasions. Refers to people he barely knows as good friends. Things like that. I almost think it makes him feel needed and popular.

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Was no talk among the family "nobles (the older family members that usually set up the family holidays)" going on? I could actually see that with happening withing my family, but in the kitchen there would be a conversation of how inappropriate it was. Even if nothing is said in front of everyone directly I'm surprised nobody had a talk with the host about how to absolve the inappropriate situation.
He and Mary hosted the party. The only elder there was his mother and she seemed to be fine with it. I don't know that no one talked to the host afterwards. What I heard, just yesterday, is that Mary has put a halt on hosting any more gatherings for a while.
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Old 01-09-2014, 01:03 PM
 
Location: California
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I think everyone should have just excused themselves and left. Sending a clear sign it was inappropriate and uncomfortable.
Who knows what might have happened with everyone gone?
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Old 01-09-2014, 02:18 PM
 
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He's douchey, no doubt. I like Mary, I tolerate John. But I'm not THAT close to either one of them to have to disengage. Truth be told, if John was out of the picture, I would get a lot closer to Mary. I suspect others feel the same way. She really is a good person.



I wouldn't say pathetic, but I'm sure she feels that way.



I've never seen it, personally. But he latches on to people, like I said before. I've heard him say "that's my lil girl" on several occasions. Refers to people he barely knows as good friends. Things like that. I almost think it makes him feel needed and popular.



He and Mary hosted the party. The only elder there was his mother and she seemed to be fine with it. I don't know that no one talked to the host afterwards. What I heard, just yesterday, is that Mary has put a halt on hosting any more gatherings for a while.

So she's dealing with the dysfunction by hiding it.

And by changing her own lifestyle.

As I said, I would avoid this couple like the plague. Leave them to their wierdness.
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Old 01-09-2014, 02:33 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Who knows what might have happened with everyone gone?
Indeed. Sounds like Jerry Springer material!
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Old 01-11-2014, 10:31 AM
 
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Inappropriate or not? Thoughts?
Inappropriate...I think.
If I was the cousins boyfriend then.... I wouldn't be any more.
too much disrespect...
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Old 01-11-2014, 10:34 AM
 
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Guess that would depend on how badly they wanted to see that particular movie

Seriously, though, why didn't ANYONE in the room react?? That part just puzzles me
Maybe because it involved adults, and it wasn't their call?
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