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My wife and I have been in seperate bedrooms now for over a year and have not had sex in almost two years. How long should I give her before moving on literally? Need women's opinions here, I know what all the guy's would say. Thanks!
In my opinion it depends on the quality of the sex and the happiness/health of the relationship with the guy one is having sex with. So if the sex is not orgasmic* or pleasurable for the gal and/or she holds resentment, anger, bitterness, etc for the guy then there is no such thing as too long for no sex.
* To me foreplay orgasms do not count so if foreplay is the only way to orgasm for me there would be no sex just foreplay as I see no point in engaging in penetration without an orgasm.
My wife and I have been in seperate bedrooms now for over a year and have not had sex in almost two years. How long should I give her before moving on literally? Need women's opinions here, I know what all the guy's would say. Thanks!
There seems to be a lot of information missing here. Sounds like your marriage is over. If my husband and I were only co-habitating because we couldn't afford divorce and separate households then I would hope that we had an open discussion about "moving on". I know someone who is in that situation. They are legally separated but can't afford divorce and having 2 households so he lives in the basement and goes about his business.
I'm confused, you're wanting only mens' input, but have stated that you already know what they would say? Are you just looking for affirmation for your side of things? What is your side of things?
Not having shared a bedroom or had sex in a long time sounds like punishment for something?
Unless there is a major health problem, a couple of months.
You're not in a marriage. You have a roommate.
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