Need help moving forward...

[JJS99]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

It took me about 6 years to stop thinking about this one man on a daily basis. It can be very hard.

Saying "get over it" is easier said than done in many cases.

It took a combination of therapy (for that and other issues) and personal coping techniques, like I actually had to say a trigger word to redirect my thoughts when he would "pop" into my mind.

Wussy!

Grow a pair!

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by JJS99

Wussy!

Grow a pair!

Since I'm a woman, that would be difficult. So f*ck off.

OP, now you're back-pedaling.

I agree that the root of your problem is anger over the situation. And your friends are being d*cks when they do that, by the way.

[JJS99]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Since I'm a woman, that would be difficult. So f*ck off.

Whoa! Easy.

I was joking.

I was making light of the fact that men are so often expected to 'get over it' in any situation.

I totally sympathize with what you went through.

Do you really think somebody would be that mean?

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by JJS99

Do you really think somebody would be that mean?

On this forum, yes.

Plus you used the mad emoticon. This means you're joking.

Ok, I take it back. You don't have to **** off.