Ladies, would you date a 30 year old virgin? (attracted, attractive, divorce)
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Originally Posted by AlfredB1979
Truth. I would be glad to return the favor, too. Let me put it this way: I've had plenty of opportunities, but I promise you that I can find every single one of those women who had their reasons to approach me, some more sinister than others...and they all live some screwed up lives now, being divorced and having multiple babydaddies and whatnot.
No thanks.
Yeah, one partner DOES make a difference. Look. That is all it takes to go from (according to the survey) a relative sure bet of a marriage to so-so. Just. Like. That.
It's a vicious circle. Guys find women who put out for whatever reason, they part ways. Guy with good intent finds woman who has made rounds and wonders why the marriage ends. Everyone wonders why everyone else is all screwed in the head. Everyone tries to find a spouse somewhere else.
This really doesn't tell you anything.
Correlation is not causation for one.
Two, if the person is in a (traditional monogamous) marriage for a period of time they'd of course have fewer partners since they're not out dating around or having sex with multiple people
Three, it doesn't tell you anything about the quality of those "stable" marriages. Stability isn't the end all (for most people). There are LOADS of people in stable marriages that are either unhappy, or, they have bad sex. Many times they don't even know it. I can't even tell you the number of 40 something women I've dated that married the first or second guy they were with and thought they had a good sex life and realized after divorce when they went out dating that they blew 20 years or so of their lives having crummy sex.
I, like a lot of people, could be married and stable (I was engaged to my best friend at one time)... we worked incredibly well together and I loved her dearly. Thankfully we realized that wasn't enough.
I think the main reason why women are turned off by men who are still a virgin past a certain age is because they figure, if no other woman has slept with him why should I?
Truth. I would be glad to return the favor, too. Let me put it this way: I've had plenty of opportunities, but I promise you that I can find every single one of those women who had their reasons to approach me, some more sinister than others...and they all live some screwed up lives now, being divorced and having multiple babydaddies and whatnot.
No thanks.
Yeah, one partner DOES make a difference. Look. That is all it takes to go from (according to the survey) a relative sure bet of a marriage to so-so. Just. Like. That.
It's a vicious circle. Guys find women who put out for whatever reason, they part ways. Guy with good intent finds woman who has made rounds and wonders why the marriage ends. Everyone wonders why everyone else is all screwed in the head. Everyone tries to find a spouse somewhere else.
Good graph. I wonder what the equivalent graph for men would look like?
I think the main reason why women are turned off by men who are still a virgin past a certain age is because they figure, if no other woman has slept with him why should I?
That is why they need to invent a cologne that smells like you spooned with a female in the last 24 hours.
I noticed in all my years that woman become interested in a guy once other woman are interested.
Nope, I like my men seasoned with experience. If you can't get laid by the time you're 30 then there's something wrong with you.
With that mindset, there is obviously there is something wrong with YOU and even men that aren't virgins by the time they are 30 should avoid you like the plague.
No it is not a known fact. Most single women are looking for men who are also single. The types of women that you are thinking of are home-wrecking mistresses who get their kicks by breaking up marriages. Also, nothing from a website called "thefrisky.com" is anywhere close to being fact.
Say he's a virgin not for religious reasons but just because he hasn't had much luck with women. Would you still date him?
As a guy, I would personally date a women who was 30 and still a virgin and if I was a woman, I would date a guy in the same situation. What matters most to me is how good of a person (i.e. a good heart, good head on her shoulders, ect.).
A potential partner's virginity means nothing to me because I am not a sex addict nor do I place sexual performance anywhere close to being atop the importance scale in a relationship (unlike some of the people on this forum).
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Most single women are looking for men who are also single. The types of women that you are thinking of are home-wrecking mistresses who get their kicks by breaking up marriages. Also, nothing from a website called "thefrisky.com" is anywhere close to being fact.
