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It's really important that you always tell your partner or love interest how you feel. Tell them everything, don't hold back. Tell them what you hope for too. The main benefit being that it leaves no room for doubt. When you don't tell them, they will dream up whatever they want about how you feel in their minds, which often times is off.
Ditto, and most women appreciate that. However, the current gf wants words all the time and doesn't look at the action. I don't know if it would be easier if I said the L word, but 4 months in, I'm not ready. Besides, it probably wouldn't be said back, and then what?
It's really important that you always tell your partner or love interest how you feel. Tell them everything, don't hold back. Tell them what you hope for too. The main benefit being that it leaves no room for doubt. When you don't tell them, they will dream up whatever they want about how you feel in their minds, which often times is off.
Just a PSA.
See what you did? I was cranky and tired and told my husband what I felt, and we didn't talk for the rest of the night.
/lol
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It's really important that you always tell your partner or love interest how you feel. Tell them everything, don't hold back. Tell them what you hope for too. The main benefit being that it leaves no room for doubt. When you don't tell them, they will dream up whatever they want about how you feel in their minds, which often times is off.
Just a PSA.
I agree with this sentiment.
I just think for some people that are or have been emotionally repressed due to their childhood upbringing, being verbal and "open" is much harder for some people. The old "stiff upper lip" where you aren't allowed to show emotions many people have been raised with that and just turning it off can be hard....
Yeah, but the thing is, you can't tell hubby to take a long walk off a short pier and not have him get fussy.....
But I'm COMMUNICATING!!!!!
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