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One of the times, for some reason, I don't know what it was but it felt like I was boning my sister.... we just had a weird vibe connection, I don't know what it was but I think she picked up on it too........ it was odd.
It wasn't a one night stand but I hadn't known her long.....
One of the times, for some reason, I don't know what it was but it felt like I was boning my sister.... we just had a weird vibe connection, I don't know what it was but I think she picked up on it too........ it was odd.
It wasn't a one night stand but I hadn't known her long.....
I get skivved out just thinkingg about it.
don't say it was like banging your sister because you are not supposed to bang your sister. Just say that you were not sexually compatible
Because men's problems in dating for the most part are about how to get to the initial attraction phase and womens problems are the decisions that have to made after attraction is established/indicated. That's why most men's threads are on these subjects
"How do I ask a girl out"
"I'm a virgin/I've never had a GF at (insert age here)"
"How do I know she likes me"
Etc
And women's threads are on subjects like
"3 guys interested I don't know who to choose?"
"Should i go on a second date with him?"
"When is the right time to have sex with a guy?"
Etc
Hence the difficulties of viewing things from the "other side". Hard to imagine the difficulties in getting a relationship when you can but can't keep them. And vice versa.
We don't have reliable statistics, even as rough guides, on percent of single women who are occasionally approached but whose options are unsatisfactory, vs. women who never get approached. We don't have statistics on percent of women who themselves approach, but get rejected. We don't have statistics for any of these things for men. Basically, we have no data – only hearsay, and perhaps intuition.
I will however offer this observation: in threads where the original poster is asking for advice on whether to persevere in a questionable relationship, or to end it, the preponderance of female opinions is to end it, while male opinions are neutral or lean towards perseverance. This suggests that men are either more willing to "settle" for a second-rate relationship, or more fearful of being left without options, of being unsuccessful in subsequent search for a new partner. Women, meanwhile, seem to prefer the absence of a relationship to the having of a mediocre relationship, and would rather be searching than settling. My conclusion, however tentatively, is that men fret more over the initiation of a relationship, while women are comparatively nonchalant about this. Instead, women devote more effort to questioning whether they are in the right relationship, and if not, how to rectify the matter. Men, once in a relationship, more or less leave matters alone. This might explain the trends postulated by the OP.
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