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Old 05-11-2014, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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The only point I ever try to make which is met with extreme hostility by women and feminized men, is that women become less physically attractive as they age. This is nature, yet it is vehemently denied on the CD forums. When the people here try run around, convincing themselves it's a good as it was when they were actually really hot in their twenties (if they even were), I can't help myself but crap on their rationalizations.
Was I more attractive 10 years ago? Yes! That was before I had 2 babies! Do I hope to get my body back to what it used to be? Yes! I probably won't be as hot as I used to be - but my goal is to still be able to turn a few heads! To be honest - I think I was in the best shape - and looked it - when I was in my early 30's. I was working out like a maniac and I had to do a show in a bikini - so that was some pretty good motivation.

But let me point out to you the flaw in the "Haha - women peak at 25 and then become old, wrinkled, and worthless while men get better and better until they die!" argument - and this is true for women AND men. An attractive person is an attractive person. It doesn't matter how old they are or what they looked like 10 years ago or what they will look like 10 years in the future - because all that matters when you meet someone is the present. When you meet someone - you have no idea if they were hotter 10 years ago - all that you know is what they look like now. Women who are dating in their 40's or 50's or whatever are judged on who they are NOW - not who they were. If they are attractive NOW - it doesn't matter if they were MORE attractive when they were younger. If someone is interested in dating them - it's not DESPITE the fact that they used to be hotter when they were younger.

I hope to not date in my 40's because I hope that my husband and I are happily married until death do us part at a ripe old age. But to be perfectly honest, I don't think I would have many problems dating now if it came to that.

 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Eh, fat disgusts me. 95% of my friends are in shape, but that is because that is who I choose to associate with.

When I see a fat chick trying to twerk at the club, I fight the urge to puke.



This is basically why you get so much flack.... WOMEN age, fat WOMEN disgust you.... it's like you think men are immune to those things. It's so one sided, it's like you have blinders on.

Your one-sided view of the world is unattractive.
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Old 05-11-2014, 11:45 AM
 
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PEOPLE get less attractive as they age. Individuals vary.
I know George Clooney and Donald Sterling cant attract younger women.
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Eh, fat disgusts me. 95% of my friends are in shape, but that is because that is who I choose to associate with.

When I see a fat chick trying to twerk at the club, I fight the urge to puke.
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I agreed it is not the same everywhere, but the newb tried to act like it doesn't exist where he lives, which is utter BS. It exists everywhere, in every age group, on some level.
Yes, well - it seems that you have a bit of a phobia about obese people if you have to fight the urge to puke. That's more of a personal issue than a global issue.
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I know George Clooney and Donald Sterling cant attract younger women.
TONS of people can get younger. They don't even have to be famous.

It's not that unusual.
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Old 05-11-2014, 11:47 AM
 
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Get real, dude! All anyone ever said is that it's hard to tell how old women in the 20's to 30's range these days. Yeah, with some women, it's obvious they're heading into 40. But with a lot of women, it's not clear at all. And I've known 25-y.o. women who looked 30+. But maybe you live in a different part of the US, where women don't stay in shape, don't watch what they eat, and party a lot. That's sure to trash their looks. Going by your posts, it sounds like you live where there are a lot of party women. That's different from NorCal and the NW, where it's a lot more about the outdoors, nature, and being active.

You still haven't told us where you live, lol.
I live in a big city in the mid west. The rates are higher out here for sure, but that doesn't change it's an American problem. Maybe not in NorCal, NYC or LA, but that's anecdotal and three areas out of thousands across the US. And I visited NYC last summer and there were plenty of pigs waddling around the city. I was also in LA last summer at a music fest, and yep, fat chicks still present. I travel ALL over the US for work, fat is everywhere.

And if you can't tell the difference between 25 and 35, that's a personal thing, because I can. A decade is a long time.
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I know George Clooney and Donald Sterling cant attract younger women.
And so can Sharon Stone and Madonna. I'm not sure what your point is...
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:49 AM
 
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This is basically why you get so much flack.... WOMEN age, fat WOMEN disgust you.... it's like you think men are immune to those things. It's so one sided, it's like you have blinders on.

Your one-sided view of the world is unattractive.
Fat guys disgust me too. Happy?
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:49 AM
 
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And so can Sharon Stone and Madonna. I'm not sure what your point is...
Men dont need looks when they have money and/or fame. A woman getting sex is no accomplishment.
 
Old 05-11-2014, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Men dont need looks when they have money and/or fame. A woman getting sex is no accomplishment.
I wasn't talking about sex. And I have no idea what your posts are talking about. Oh well. Have a great day!
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