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Old 05-29-2014, 10:38 AM
 
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Those are the good ones, embrace it!

You know how many stale, boring, cold fish girls there are out there?
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:39 AM
 
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She's 31 and lost her virginity just two years ago at the age of 29. She's only been with a few guys. My feelings are, if she's new to sex in general and likes it so much, she'll be curious on what other guys are like in bed.

What if I'm not able to see her for a week? Am I supposed to believe that she can wait that long? She says she's impatient and has ADD. She also has a couple of straight, single, male friends one is a coworker who she occasionally goes to happy hour with. On top of that, her longest relationship is 4 months. We've been dating for 2 months.


I'm just adding things up and I'm having a real hard time believing this girl isn't going to screw around on me.
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:44 AM
 
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Why are you in a relationship with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable?

Have you spoke to her directly about you concerns? Because now is the time...
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:45 AM
 
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Some people have high sex drive, but one thing to remember is that persons sex drive also changes during different stages in their life, so its definitely something to keep in mind, when planning a future together. I wouldn't worry too much about it. You should be focusing on how promiscuous she is, when single, because there is a lot more correlation between womans level promiscuity and likelihood of her cheating in the future.
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Bronx, New York
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If you really feel that way then just go ahead and dump her already.


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She's 31 and lost her virginity just two years ago at the age of 29. She's only been with a few guys. My feelings are, if she's new to sex in general and likes it so much, she'll be curious on what other guys are like in bed.

What if I'm not able to see her for a week? Am I supposed to believe that she can wait that long? She says she's impatient and has ADD. She also has a couple of straight, single, male friends one is a coworker who she occasionally goes to happy hour with. On top of that, her longest relationship is 4 months. We've been dating for 2 months.


I'm just adding things up and I'm having a real hard time believing this girl isn't going to screw around on me.
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:47 AM
 
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Many guys would dream of having a partner that at least wanted sex as much as them but in your case it seems there are more negatives than positive in this relationship. Perhaps you jumped to a relationship too soon instead of taking your time to know her more and later along the road realize she was not your type.
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Old 05-29-2014, 10:53 AM
 
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She's 31 and lost her virginity just two years ago at the age of 29. She's only been with a few guys. My feelings are, if she's new to sex in general and likes it so much, she'll be curious on what other guys are like in bed.

What if I'm not able to see her for a week? Am I supposed to believe that she can wait that long? She says she's impatient and has ADD. She also has a couple of straight, single, male friends one is a coworker who she occasionally goes to happy hour with. On top of that, her longest relationship is 4 months. We've been dating for 2 months.


I'm just adding things up and I'm having a real hard time believing this girl isn't going to screw around on me.

I know a lot of people are joking, but it does sound like you have trust issues. You have two choices here:

1.) Either trust that she cares enough about you to remain faithful.

2.) Break up with her and work on your trust issues, because your suspicions aren't fair to her.

Also, if you can't see her for a week, there are ways around that, e.g. sexting or phone sex.

My honest opinion is that this relationship is destined to fail. It's only been two months and you are already questioning her.
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Old 05-29-2014, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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She's 31 and lost her virginity just two years ago at the age of 29. She's only been with a few guys. My feelings are, if she's new to sex in general and likes it so much, she'll be curious on what other guys are like in bed.

What if I'm not able to see her for a week? Am I supposed to believe that she can wait that long? She says she's impatient and has ADD. She also has a couple of straight, single, male friends one is a coworker who she occasionally goes to happy hour with. On top of that, her longest relationship is 4 months. We've been dating for 2 months.


I'm just adding things up and I'm having a real hard time believing this girl isn't going to screw around on me.
Nympho or not, just about every woman is capable of cheating (believe you me) just cross your fingers and hope it doesn't happen to you; that's all you can do.

Now go bang your gf and don't worry about something that might not even happen
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Old 05-29-2014, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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she's 31 and lost her virginity just two years ago at the age of 29. She's only been with a few guys. My feelings are, if she's new to sex in general and likes it so much, she'll be curious on what other guys are like in bed.

What if i'm not able to see her for a week? Am i supposed to believe that she can wait that long? She says she's impatient and has add. She also has a couple of straight, single, male friends one is a coworker who she occasionally goes to happy hour with. On top of that, her longest relationship is 4 months. We've been dating for 2 months.


I'm just adding things up and i'm having a real hard time believing this girl isn't going to screw around on me.
then dump her.
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Old 05-29-2014, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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I know a lot of people are joking, but it does sound like you have trust issues. You have two choices here:

1.) Either trust that she cares enough about you to remain faithful.

2.) Break up with her and work on your trust issues, because your suspicions aren't fair to her.

Also, if you can't see her for a week, there are ways around that, e.g. sexting or phone sex.

My honest opinion is that this relationship is destined to fail. It's only been two months and you are already questioning her.


Yeah, but it's normal to start questioning a relationship early on. Do you think it would be more likely to happen 2+ years down the road? Of course not.


Apart from that, I agree with your tips. Only a few options here.
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