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Well since you're not willing you might as well just leave her and stop delaying the inevitable, no?
Or would you rather avoid dealing with this issues as well?
Wake up OP
...what color minivan?
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His descriptions of his mother show present tense anger, and if his gf rightfully views this as possibly what lies up the road for her, that is HER right.
With the way we handle EVERY relationship, we reveal things about ourselves. The smart folks pick up on those "hints" and respond.
The OP is upset she is leaving if he doesn't change (or else this thread would NOT exist).
Respect her right to do so.
Like I said, it's none of her business. Some things are private. It's not my relationship so I don't have to respect anything. Don't know why you told me that lol.
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Like I said, it's none of her business. Some things are private. It's not my relationship so I don't have to respect anything. Don't know why you told me that lol.
If he told her about it then it is her business especially as he so disgustingly says the following below, which shows he is looking at her as someone to marry.
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Hell, if this girl wants to leave fine, I can find some girl who will be happy to have a big house, minivan, 2-3 kids, and a husband who is willing to have sex every day and never ask irrelevant questions.
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Two things I agree with.
1. OPs issues with his mom's remarriage are an indicator of issues he may have which will affect relationships with the opposite sex.
2. It is not the girlfriend's place to "demand" the OP fix his relationship with his mother. She does not have the full story and she is an outsider to the situation. The OP is handling the situation the way he sees fit, even though I don't agree with his handling of it. If the GF doesn't agree with the OPs decision, she should decide to end the relationship and not waste anymore time.
I admitted to this girl I've been seeing for three months that I no longer talk to my mom. I didn't elaborate aside from saying that we had disagreements about some things. I also told her I no longer harbored any animosity towards her, I just have nothing to say to her. My girlfriend is now demanding that I repair my relationship with her or she'll leave. My two questions are why does she care and what should I do?
Because she realizes that how a man treats his mother is a reflection of how he will treat HER.
I treat my mom as an individual. Its a huge logical leap to think that she is a reflection on all women.
NO. How YOU treat your mom may very well be a reflection on how YOU treat all women.
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