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As you all heard heard phrases like "why do I keep getting hurt?" or "why are all men dogs?" I'm gonna explain this to you. It's not that all men are dogs and it's not exactly because you're going for that type of man either. It's usually because you're dating up. You reject 90% of the men that hit on you and you pick the best looking ones. You want the highest quality man you can get, which is understandable. Only problem is that guy you picked is out of your league and doesn't want anything serious with you. A guy will usually sleep with a girl who's not up to par with him, even one that he's not really attracted to. So while that man didn't want you, there's another girl he probably will want. It doesn't matter what matter what you look like. Have you heard of a guy who sleeps with a fat chick, but doesn't wanna commit to her. The same thing when these 5s and 6s shoot for the guy that all the girls like. If she has a nice body and she's not ugly, she's actually kinda cute, he'll talk to her, sleep with her, but usually won't commit to her. Stop dating up, that'll usually solve your problem.
Same thing happens when an ugly obese man gets taken advantage of by a woman. He spends money on a woman who had no interest then complains years later on dating site. He needs to stop dating up, that's his problem.
Same thing happens when an ugly obese man gets taken advantage of by a woman. He spends money on a woman who had no interest then complains years later on dating site. He needs to stop dating up, that's his problem.
As you all heard heard phrases like "why do I keep getting hurt?" or "why are all men dogs?" I'm gonna explain this to you. It's not that all men are dogs and it's not exactly because you're going for that type of man either. It's usually because you're dating up. You reject 90% of the men that hit on you and you pick the best looking ones. You want the highest quality man you can get, which is understandable. Only problem is that guy you picked is out of your league and doesn't want anything serious with you. A guy will usually sleep with a girl who's not up to par with him, even one that he's not really attracted to. So while that man didn't want you, there's another girl he probably will want. It doesn't matter what matter what you look like. Have you heard of a guy who sleeps with a fat chick, but doesn't wanna commit to her. The same thing when these 5s and 6s shoot for the guy that all the girls like. If she has a nice body and she's not ugly, she's actually kinda cute, he'll talk to her, sleep with her, but usually won't commit to her. Stop dating up, that'll usually solve your problem.
What about the women who get hurt who date down or in their own league?
A really high quality man doesn't do that sort of thing. Also, guys that are very attractive, IME, have enough confidence that they don't need to prove anything to anyone else. It's guys that are not so attractive or don't have much to offer that tend to be shallow. They want that girl who is a 9 or a 10 so they can prove something to the world.
And if the guy is attractive but isn't confident enough to see the whole of the woman he is with, then that woman isn't dating up at all. Just because a guy is a 10 in the looks department doesn't make him a 10 overall.
A really high quality man doesn't do that sort of thing. Also, guys that are very attractive, IME, have enough confidence that they don't need to prove anything to anyone else. It's guys that are not so attractive or don't have much to offer that tend to be shallow. They want that girl who is a 9 or a 10 so they can prove something to the world.
And if the guy is attractive but isn't confident enough to see the whole of the woman he is with, then that woman isn't dating up at all. Just because a guy is a 10 in the looks department doesn't make him a 10 overall.
That's neither here nor there. I'm explaining why this always happens to women. Your describing your opinion of what a high quality man is. That doesn't change anything.
That's neither here nor there. I'm explaining why this always happens to women. Your describing your opinion of what a high quality man is. That doesn't change anything.
It absolutely does. You are saying that these women are dating up, but they really aren't dating up if the guy turns out to be a d-bag. They are dating down.
As you all heard heard phrases like "why do I keep getting hurt?" or "why are all men dogs?" I'm gonna explain this to you. It's not that all men are dogs and it's not exactly because you're going for that type of man either. It's usually because you're dating up. You reject 90% of the men that hit on you and you pick the best looking ones. You want the highest quality man you can get, which is understandable. Only problem is that guy you picked is out of your league and doesn't want anything serious with you. A guy will usually sleep with a girl who's not up to par with him, even one that he's not really attracted to. So while that man didn't want you, there's another girl he probably will want. It doesn't matter what matter what you look like. Have you heard of a guy who sleeps with a fat chick, but doesn't wanna commit to her. The same thing when these 5s and 6s shoot for the guy that all the girls like. If she has a nice body and she's not ugly, she's actually kinda cute, he'll talk to her, sleep with her, but usually won't commit to her. Stop dating up, that'll usually solve your problem.
Did you experience this? Did you make it up? Or did you read it on a toilet wall?
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