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Old 10-13-2014, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Most women are out of my league. What I do? I don't approach women and just prepare for lifetime of being single.
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Old 10-13-2014, 12:56 PM
 
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I do not find it credible that you think 'all' women are out of your league. You probably mean all women you are attracted to. People using hyperbole is pet peeve of mine.
This. What kind of women are you approaching, OP? Do you go only for one certain type? If so, branch out. Are you approaching at all? If not, start making small talk with people. As you develop those banter skills, include women your age, whether you're attracted to them or not. And/or get involved in activities and groups where you'll be meeting women as a matter of course. Use those opportunities to work on your social skills.
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Old 10-13-2014, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Among the people I know who always use 'the league talk', I´ve never seen anyone believe all women are out of a man´s league.

OP, would you by any chance be talking about yourself?....all women out of your league?...seriously?
He's not the only one. I believe the majority of women are out of my league. I don't make a move because I know the answer will be no. Good looking women want good looking men. I'm not the man for them.
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Old 10-13-2014, 01:03 PM
 
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He's not the only one. I believe the majority of women are out of my league. I don't make a move because I know the answer will be no. Good looking women want good looking men. I'm not the man for them.
The answer here is obvious. Go for the average-looking women. Look for women who have something in common with you. You have a gf anyway, don't you?
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Old 10-13-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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Re-read the OP and tell me how it is possible his thinking isn't wrong.
Frankly I have about twenty years knowing women aren't interested in me. It takes a clear, rational, mind to realize things such as this.
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Old 10-13-2014, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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The answer here is obvious. Go for the average-looking women. Look for women who have something in common with you. You have a gf anyway, don't you?
Not anymore. She like the last girl cheated on me. Oh and even the average women are out of my league. I won't date a woman I'm not attracted to and the women I want will say no. I'm just gonna be single. That's not a bad thing though. Whenever I do date a decent looking woman she ends up cheating on me and betraying my trust. Not risking it anyore until I finish therapy.

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Old 10-13-2014, 02:39 PM
 
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Frankly I have about twenty years knowing women aren't interested in me. It takes a clear, rational, mind to realize things such as this.
People seem to think just because you ask out 10 women 1 will be interested in you. It might take 20 or 200 women to find the one who is even remotely interested.
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Old 10-13-2014, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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People seem to think just because you ask out 10 women 1 will be interested in you. It might take 20 or 200 women to find the one who is even remotely interested.
No way in hell will I approach 20 to 200 women just to find one remotely interested. I already have a job, I don't need another.
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Old 10-13-2014, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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It might take 20 or 200 women to find the one who is even remotely interested.
Good plan......not!
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Old 10-13-2014, 04:21 PM
 
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People seem to think just because you ask out 10 women 1 will be interested in you. It might take 20 or 200 women to find the one who is even remotely interested.
Or you find none at all. To the posters who speak about all the people in relationships I say just because some can doesn't mean all can.
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