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I respect that. Now if you willingly take him up on his invite into his place after the date, I hope you are still not thinking movie and make out and perhaps open to more. Remember, 2 keys to the car now...
I have to have sex with him if he invites me over?
But I have often read on these forums where women come back screaming about how they did all they could by inviting the guy over to her place and setting the mood but the man never took charge and seduced her. It's a no win situation I tell you.
All the OP asked was, "Does 'inviting me in' mean sex?"
The bold ^^^ is you taking it and running with it.
I have to have sex with him if he invites me over?
No, but you are open to movies and make out. It may not necessarily be his extent. You can't set the pace in all aspects. Kissing for some is sacred and even that is asking for much. So for you to extend to kissing is the same way others may extend to touching.
I am not saying anything has to happen and communication is key. But you can't make out but freak out if a man suggests more. Not that it should happen but don't be surprised.
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I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?
What do you think?
I'm pretty sure she has something nefarious planned, and you should be afraid for your life. Ask yourself this, would anyone miss you if your disappeared? This woman could have been plotting for just such an opportunity for a long time. Be careful my friend, be careful!
All the OP asked was, "Does 'inviting me in' mean sex?"
The bold ^^^ is you taking it and running with it.
The answer to HIS question is NO.
How about you relax. It's 9AM. I am responding to some of the other posts that suggested that the OP shouldn't assume. I simply stated that there have been other threads with women complaining that the man didn't do anything. Meaning, sometimes when a man just goes with the flow and does nothing, he never gets to come back because he didn't make a move. C'mon....
I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?
What do you think?
No, being invited inside is not an automatic that she wants sex involved, when you are invited inside whether a woman lives alone or not it means you were invited inside her "home" you were not invited into her hooch.
How about you relax. It's 9AM. I am responding to some of the other posts that suggested that the OP shouldn't assume. I simply stated that there have been other threads with women complaining that the man didn't do anything. C'mon....
You telling ME to relax is the height of irony.
You are the one who needs to dial it down. You contradict yourself all the time.
Bringing in info from other threads is called hijacking.
It could be that she's getting comfortable with you and taking steps to a more intimate relationship, slowly. Maybe she's at a point where she feels safe enough with you to let you in to her personal space--but that's it right now.
Or maybe she's the type to go from 0-60 and just want to hop in bed right away.
I think what has happened prior to her inviting you to her place can be a big clue... have you kissed yet, made out a little, made out "a lot," etc. but it's just that, a clue, not a clear indication. So when in doubt, ask (either by words or actions).
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