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Old 10-31-2014, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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I'll chime in...No
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:16 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?

What do you think?
Maybe. The only person who can say yes is she. You really don't want to be approaching a reluctant woman thinking she wants it and is playing hard to get just because some knucklehead on the internet told you so.
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:24 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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Some do and some don't. In my experience, it's happened a handful of times, but the majority of the time no. For those guys who apparently have a difficult time knowing, it's really not that hard. Just test the waters, start out slow and build up from there. If she is receptive and doesn't pull away then yes she's probably interested.
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:29 AM
 
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Let's say that a woman you are not attracted to enters your home. Does it mean you have to have sex with her? She crossed the threshold, so you must want sex...right?

Some women who invite you in want sex and some don't. How is this even a question?

A kiss does not mean she wants sex.

Accepting a drink does not mean she wants sex.

Going on a date does not mean she wants sex.

Inviting you over to her home does not mean she wants sex.

Telling you she wants sex means she wants sex. Don't you talk about this stuff before engaging in relations?
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:30 AM
 
Location: east coast
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Let's say that a woman you are not attracted to enters your home. Does it mean you have to have sex with her? She crossed the threshold, so you must want sex...right?

Some women who invite you in want sex and some don't. How is this even a question?
Why would we be inviting people we just went on a date with and not attracted to over to our home? Maybe I am not understanding your POV.
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:33 AM
 
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Why would we be inviting people we just went on a date with and not attracted to over to our home? Maybe I am not understanding your POV.
Haven't you ever gone to your home to hang out? Haven't you ever made dinner or watched movies at your house for a date?

Maybe things didn't work out. Are you obligated to have sex because you are at your home?

Are you ready to have sex with every single woman you have been on a date with?

What if during dinner you discussed some really cool artifact that you have at your home and she wants to see it?

I can think of many reasons a woman might come to your place.
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:34 AM
 
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Me personally, it would be because I want to watch tv and cuddle. Yet every single dang time I've attempted to do that, it turns into sex. Dang horndogs!
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:34 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?

What do you think?
I don't know about that, who knows what she has in mind. Nowadays you might become dead meat.
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Old 10-31-2014, 08:59 AM
 
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Why would we be inviting people we just went on a date with and not attracted to over to our home?
Shock horror - it might actually be - wait for this as it is a revelation - the people might actually enjoy each others company without sex having to come into it.
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Old 10-31-2014, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Not necessarily. Maybe she just wants some company. Don't go in there thinking you'll get laid-that means you more than likely won't with that attitude
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