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So are a million other students, not really that impressive and you completely missed the point of my post.
I have several pieces of paper that say I went to classes, turned in all the required work and got good grades, what exactly is your point in writing the above statement?
I'm also own my own business in a traditionally male dominated profession that has nothing to do with any of the pieces of paper I have tucked away in my bookcase that says I'm smart.
Just because someone 'looks' like they are a good person or they don't push you into something immediately does not mean they actually are a good person who won't rape you the next time you tease them with making out and then tell them no.
Do you understand any of this? Do you understand why it is dangerous to do what you are doing?
Do you understand that being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with any of this situation?
It is the making out with someone you just met AND inviting them to sleep in your bed even though you just met them a couple days earlier.
I see your point. I know I need to be more careful it's something I really need to work on.
Letting a man that you barely know sleep in your bed is not going to lead to love. Sooner or later, it could lead to you being raped. I don't want that to happen to any woman, but when you put yourself in a situation like that enough times, sooner or later you will get unflattering results. Just like the person who drinks and drives. Sooner or later their luck is going to run out and they're going to get arrested.
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I guess. I just don't know why she doesn't want to get it on, but that is her choice. One of the nice things about being out of my 20s is there is far fewer games played. We are attracted to each other and like making out? We have sex. Simple. No judgements (though I don't recall that in my 20s either), no big deal, just some (hopefully) fun times.
You answered your own question...there's far too many games to be played and little people to trust when you're in your 20s, everyone is virtually out for self.
Op, you really just need to chill out with the guys, back off for a while.
You aren't really using good judgement at all. Making out with men you barely know is not a good way to try to start a relationship and it could be potentially dangerous. Using your body as weapon and trying to keep guys interested with sex isn't wise. Sure in some cases it could lead to something, in most cases it doesn't. At least not with most folks I know.
You need to exercise common sense with these guys, and stop being so boy crazy. You're in young (only 20) and still in school, that should be your main priority. Not playing around with guys. That is just how I feel. Keep in mind most folks our age are not looking for anything serious. If you happen to meet a guy, and you enjoy each other's company then great. If not, don't feel bad. Don't be in such a rush.
Don't let the possibilty or potential cloud your better judgement.
I see your point. I know I need to be more careful it's something I really need to work on.
No one here is judging you. We all just want you to be safe. College is fun. Enjoy the experience in a safe way. Take some time off from having men in your home. We do all want to be loved, but we have to set bounddaries for finding the right person. It takes time, without cuddling or sex, to get to know a person.
So are a million other students, not really that impressive and you completely missed the point of my post.
I have several pieces of paper that say I went to classes, turned in all the required work and got good grades, what exactly is your point in writing the above statement?
It is impressive, this is stupid to say. And I hope her new friend works out.
All this rape scare is f'd up. Are you saying she's going to get beat up and done with a gun to her head? I think she's smart enough to gauge if the guy she is making out with could do this and otherwise not party with high school drop outs in a dive bar in po dunk USA.
If she is partying with the losers maybe she should go find some nerd parties to go to.
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