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Unfortunately, I seem to know a lot of women who are playful with everyone, the kind who will touch your hand or elbow, or the kind who laugh at everything, for example. It's difficult for my literal mind to separate fact from fiction.
I have the same problem... A girl I know usually hugs me and holds my hand a lot but I get the feeling she does that to everyone and isn't actually interested in me...
Also thinking about it now, I met a girl at the bar this weekend who was talking to me quite a bit and would put her arm on me. She may have been interested but at the time I was completely oblivious.
some signs girls show are subtle. things like licking their lips, playing with their hair, touching you regularly, etc. sometimes they will turn away from you and speak in a softer voice, forcing you to move closer to hear what they have to say. other times they will come up behind you, usually while you are sitting, and press their breasts into you back while they talk to you.
I have the same problem... A girl I know usually hugs me and holds my hand a lot but I get the feeling she does that to everyone and isn't actually interested in me...
Also thinking about it now, I met a girl at the bar this weekend who was talking to me quite a bit and would put her arm on me. She may have been interested but at the time I was completely oblivious.
this is why you need to be constantly alert, and willing to push the envelope a bit, if you are in a position to do so. you never know what will happen.
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Originally Posted by newdixiegirl
Is this what you dreamt last night?
are you suggesting that you dont do what i said women tend to do?
I'm really dumb when it comes to indicators, and I'd rather err on the side of caution than risk creating an awkward situation. Especially at work, or other places where I'd see them regularly. My unstable lifestyle has kept me from taking those kinds of risks.
Someone I dated last year told me that she's been waiting for me to ask her out. I first met her 7 years ago. That's a long time to wonder if someone's interested or not. I wish I had better read and "confirm" skills.
I'm really dumb when it comes to indicators, and I'd rather err on the side of caution than risk creating an awkward situation.
Especially at work, or other places where I'd see them regularly.
My unstable lifestyle has kept me from taking those kinds of risks.
Someone I dated last year told me that she's been waiting for me to ask her out.
I first met her 7 years ago. That's a long time to wonder if someone's interested or not.
I wish I had better read and "confirm" skills.
She should have said something to you (Nice tie...Hey, Bob, wanna join us after work?)...
sounds like she wasn't doing 'anything'!
A lot of it is in body language or how they talk to you...if they're trying to keep your attention, the easiest and most obvious thing to notice is her grabbing your arm or putting her hand on your thigh while talking. Any of that is a dead giveaway and usually gets combined with smiles and "big eyes" being locked on to you.
Easier yet, in a social setting...I usually have somebody just randomly grab on to me and drag me off to dance or whatever; that, or they'll touch my shoulder while walking by and do the whole "hey, follow me" thing with their face when I look back.
It's all pretty obvious if coming from somebody who isn't extremely shy and introverted. Don't worry too much and just have fun.
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