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Old 10-25-2013, 02:57 PM
 
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Would you ever date someone who abandoned their kid? I once went on a date with as guy I later found out abandoned his pregnant girlfriend. He has never had anything to do with the kid he has and this is disgusting to me. To me abandoning the kids is lower and yes I include not paying child support.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:01 PM
 
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I wouldn't even date someone who had a kid, much less abandoned their own.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:04 PM
 
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No, but plenty of women do. My ex married a woman who despises kids so that was sort of the end of his relationship with his daughters. But it takes all kinds I guess!
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:04 PM
 
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What about people who have had an abortion? Do you find that disgusting too?
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:04 PM
 
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I never would. Was with someone years ago who was on the receiving end of this. The toll is very bad on the person in every aspect and the child suffers. She had to work 2 jobs and the stress was nearly unbearable and money was still tight. A person who just walks away and goes on living without any regard for their child or the other parent has to be a stone cold soul. This subject stirs me up due to growing up without parents, Though they died and I was not intentionally abandoned. It still sucked and even as an adult sometimes hurts, Like on holidays and such.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:05 PM
 
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No, but plenty of women do. My ex married a woman who despises kids so that was sort of the end of his relationship with his daughters. But it takes all kinds I guess!
Wow, if that was me I would have never progressed with that relationship. My daughter comes first.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:06 PM
 
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I don't date dads either but yep once I found out we were done. It's one thing to have kids and support them but another to have kids and have nothing to do with them.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:10 PM
 
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What about people who have had an abortion? Do you find that disgusting too?
Not every woman is fit to be a mother so if she had an abortion, I'm sure she has her personal reasons.
I don't want kids and if I were to use protection and pills but still get pregnant, I would be pissed off.
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:14 PM
 
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Can you find any more categories of people for you to hate? Especially people who you are in no way 'forced' to be with?
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Old 10-25-2013, 03:15 PM
 
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Any man who does not care for his children is not a man at all.
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