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People don't WANT to date a 31 year old woman with no relationship experience. They think I don't know what I want, that I'll be clingy, that there must be something wrong with me.
I wonder why I would even date--once it comes up that I've never had a relationship, things would be over anyway.
There are men out there in the same boat as you.
It is easy to explain. "I used to be painfully shy, and could never bring myself to go on dates. I've had to work on my shyness." If that's not quite true, substitute something which is.
So you can't know you hate dating. You have no experience in it, so you have no idea what you're talking about.
And people don't kiss on a first date? Since when? If the date goes well it generally ends up in some kissing. I made out with the last several people I dated on the first date. Sometimes there was more than kissing.
The first day my husband and I actually met in person we spent the entire night having wild sex. It was totally hot.
I know myself well enough to know that dating just won't work.
I don't know what I'm going to do, but dating seems impossible. Right now I have someone I'm attached to and it wouldn't be fair to anyone I dated when I still want him.
It sounds like you just want someone to fill a need in your life, and that's not very healthy in the long run.
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If it's not healthy, then why do so many people do it?
They dont
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