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I don't play that mess... I will never compete for a woman....I talk to a woman and she likes me, fine, I'm not going to play poodle and dance about trying to vie for her attention from another dude.... life is too short and there are far too many women out there to subjugate or make a fool of yourself.
I am not a competing person, or game person-far as social situations go. I am not a temptress, seductress, or flirty. I can only be me. If it's not enough, then I won't be starting anything with that guy. If he goes to another woman, he's not too interested. lol Oh well. I don't do games, and haven't since 8th grade.
This sums it up. Compete for what? It's rare I meet anyone I might be interested in, anyway. I figure that if I've enjoyed a couple of good conversations at a party, it was a successful evening.
I don't play that mess... I will never compete for a woman....I talk to a woman and she likes me, fine, I'm not going to play poodle and dance about trying to vie for her attention from another dude.... life is too short and there are far too many women out there to subjugate or make a fool of yourself.
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Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate
I am not a competing person, or game person-far as social situations go. I am not a temptress, seductress, or flirty. I can only be me. If it's not enough, then I won't be starting anything with that guy. If he goes to another woman, he's not too interested. lol Oh well. I don't do games, and haven't since 8th grade.
I don't play that mess... I will never compete for a woman....I talk to a woman and she likes me, fine, I'm not going to play poodle and dance about trying to vie for her attention from another dude.... life is too short and there are far too many women out there to subjugate or make a fool of yourself.
Yup.
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Oh, yes... the all "you fight for me or I'm all his routine"... he can keep her. I'll never fight for a woman if she was never mines to begin with. I remember I went to my cousin's house this past new years eve and this one girl whom was supposedly "attracted" to me in the words of my cousin, kept flirting with another guy. When I tried to initiate contact she was accepting but kept playing her cards all night and I decided to let it go. Of course, I have methods in which i operate which are, if a girl is interested in me she shouldn't be trying to make me jealous or rush me into making a move on her. I like to analyze the situation and see if she's worth it (usually done within an hour or so) and if she cannot remain herself within that time frame without pulling some stunt then she wasn't worth it.
Women who think men should compete for them are immature and not worth the effort.
Agreed. Same goes for men who look at dating as "survival of the fittest." Give humans more credit than that. We are capable of being above primal instincts and valuing others for who they are as people, not what they can provide us. It's a shame that some people remain a few steps behind the evolutionary cycle.
You were there first but the other guy was more interesting to her. You were her backup plan.
I don't compete. A guy either likes me or not. I give signals and then the ball is in his corner.
I don't understand how people can go on that bachelors tv show and act like animals in heat. I would feel like an idiot.
Me too. I could never go on that show. It makes women (and men) look so desperate. I would never fight over anyone like that, and fortunately, never had to. Oh, and the thought of knowing and seeing him make out with all those other girls when he supposedly was falling for me on that show? No thanks. No wonder very few couples make it coming out of that show.
Agreed. Same goes for men who look at dating as "survival of the fittest." Give humans more credit than that. We are capable of being above primal instincts and valuing others for who they are as people, not what they can provide us. It's a shame that some people remain a few steps behind the evolutionary cycle.
Those types of men are immature as well. Survival of the fittest? What a dumb mindset to have.
Perhaps this single woman was enjoying her night and any sense of competition was on the OP....
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