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You're ranking people instead of getting to know them. Looks and a resume are only part of a person.
Relationships are about two people and how they interact.
If your "better" friends approach dating the way you apparently do, they're getting rejected because they're snobs.
shallow? what a gratuite insult! you would justify anything in order to insult someone on the internet, wouldnt you?
Im talking about a girl who has been CHEATED by her long time partner of 8 years, while she never ever cheated or lied to him. But for you his cheating is probably justified cause my friend is probably and idiot and shallow, right?
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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shallow? what a gratuite insult! you would justify anything in order to insult someone on the internet, wouldnt you?
Im talking about a girl who has been CHEATED by her long time partner of 8 years, while she never ever cheated or lied to him. But for you his cheating is probably justified cause my friend is probably and idiot and shallow, right?
You seem to have no trouble insulting the guy involved here.
And this guy never cheated on your friend, either, so that's irrelevant.
You seem to have no trouble insulting the guy involved here.
And this guy never cheated on your friend, either, so that's irrelevant.
i insulted him cause i think he used her.
now, you insulting me or my friend are way off. i posted her story to show she was an outstanding person, seems like you are insulting her or me just cause we are women?? what reason do you have to insult us??
it was the guy (both guys) that was in the wrong, my friend did absolutely anything rude or wrong, but you still insult us just in case?
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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i insulted him cause i think he used her.
now, you insulting me or my friend are way off. i posted her story to show she was an outstanding person, seems like you are insulting her or me just cause we are women?? what reason do you have to insult us??
it was the guy (both guys) that was in the wrong, my friend did absolutely anything rude or wrong, but you still insult us just in case?
I don't know her. I didn't insult her.
I haven't really insulted you either, but I think you're being mean to this man and you have misplaced priorities.
The only thing potentially that he did wrong was not respond to her text. That's it.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I mean, come on, what kind of person in his 30s in a non religios progressive city like this one has never tried alcohol?
Just wanted to address this judgmental post on the guy. There is a belief called straight edge where people (most who are atheists) abstain from alcohol consumption and tobacco and drug use.
Be honest I don't think you or your friends have a realistic view of yourselves.
I haven't really insulted you either, but I think you're being mean to this man and you have misplaced priorities.
The only thing potentially that he did wrong was not respond to her text. That's it.
i think people have been mean to my friend and are being mean with me for no reason whatsoever.
really people need to stop to be so angry all the time here. if they are resentful with women, they shouldnt insult all women they came across.
i could be resentful with men (im not anyway, cause i know many many wonderful men, the best one being my boyfriend, the nices most adoring person i ever knew) for how crappy they have been with my friends and insult them on every topic, yet, i never do,and when someone comes and says "all men are crap" i say "maybe some, but there are lots of wonderful men". I love men, they are great. I never insulted anyone on city data. Im always nice and give good advice. if i said things about this men i dont know, its because he used my friend. I was telling my friend story, i know who SHE is, so thats why im on her side.
the insults for her and me were totally gratuite though
Just wanted to address this judgmental post on the guy. There is a belief called straight edge where people (most who are atheists) abstain from alcohol consumption and tobacco and drug use.
Be honest I don't think you or your friends have a realistic view of yourselves.
realistic? i stated objective facts: she IS succesful, she IS pretty, she IS strong cause she raised a kid alone since she was 18, she IS a wonderful person cause she showed this with her actions through the years.
And about myself, i only said i wish i was as good as her, but i know im not. Like THAT realistic?
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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i think people have been mean to my friend and are being mean with me for no reason whatsoever.
really people need to stop to be so angry all the time here. if they are resentful with women, they shouldnt insult all women they came across.
i could be resentful with men (im not anyway, cause i know many many wonderful men, the best one being my boyfriend, the nices most adoring person i ever knew) for how crappy they have been with my friends and insult them on every topic, yet, i never do,and when someone comes and says "all men are crap" i say "maybe some, but there are lots of wonderful men". I love men, they are great. I never insulted anyone on city data. Im always nice and give good advice. if i said things about this men i dont know, its because he used my friend. I was telling my friend story, i know who SHE is, so thats why im on her side.
the insults for her and me were totally gratuite though
Ok, this has to be a joke, because you're mad at this guy for only not texting back after a date that didn't go anywhere. That is all he did wrong.
And no, you're not always nice. You were a jerk to this man.
i think people have been mean to my friend and are being mean with me for no reason whatsoever.
really people need to stop to be so angry all the time here. if they are resentful with women, they shouldnt insult all women they came across.
i could be resentful with men (im not anyway, cause i know many many wonderful men, the best one being my boyfriend, the nices most adoring person i ever knew) for how crappy they have been with my friends and insult them on every topic, yet, i never do,and when someone comes and says "all men are crap" i say "maybe some, but there are lots of wonderful men". I love men, they are great. I never insulted anyone on city data. Im always nice and give good advice. if i said things about this men i dont know, its because he used my friend. I was telling my friend story, i know who SHE is, so thats why im on her side.
the insults for her and me were totally gratuite though
I am a woman. I have nothing against women.
You don't see how your attitude is affecting this situation. You think you are absolutely in the right, and we are reading your words and letting you know how they come across.
My words were not "gratuitous" insults. I chose them to point our how you are being hypocritical by doing the very thing you're trying to say this guy did on the date.
If you don't want truth, just get together some of your girlfriends so y'all can gossip about this guy together and congratulate yourselves on how successful and "better" you are.
realistic? i stated objective facts: she IS succesful, she IS pretty, she IS strong cause she raised a kid alone since she was 18, she IS a wonderful person cause she showed this with her actions through the years.
And about myself, i only said i wish i was as good as her, but i know im not. Like THAT realistic?
And shes entitled only to the best men. LOl, TOO bad it doesn't work that way in reality.
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