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Old 03-20-2015, 12:37 PM
 
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She will do what she wants I want to add that. See she thinks if she tells me its not cheating. I was told it can be just us , she is upset with me. I let my self go sure I lost weight a lot but the damage was done. She lost 100 pounds she had the bypass surgery . I think she thinks she is a10, I hate to use a number to describe a persons appearance as I do live an die by that.she was 283 I loved her but it was not enough. I feel like I am competing for her.
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Old 03-20-2015, 12:37 PM
 
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It's not about her, it's about you now.

Stop allowing her to make the choices for you. Start thinking independently
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Old 03-20-2015, 12:38 PM
 
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It sounds like your problems are too many and I really suggest you seek therapy.
Starting it in a week an we want family therapy
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Old 03-20-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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It's not about her, it's about you now.

Stop allowing her to make the choices for you.
She is super controlling , its her house an the new thing she controls what we eat. She talks to me an hger mom in a loud tone
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Old 03-20-2015, 12:43 PM
 
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No judgment here at all. I just think you need to take care of yourself first. I know its hard because you have a history with her, but she isn't caring about your needs.

Is she bipolar by any chance? That often manifests through sexual behavior and promiscuity.
Yes an history of rape,
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Old 03-20-2015, 01:14 PM
 
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Dump her and get therapy. Maybe it's not easy, but it is simple.
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Old 03-20-2015, 01:40 PM
 
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I have to she was texting this guy who she likes but said they not taslking?. She sneaking around put Skype back on her phone . she up to her crap again
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Old 03-20-2015, 03:04 PM
 
Location: California
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Sounds like she is having her cake and eating it too!!
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Old 03-20-2015, 03:23 PM
 
Location: MA
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Both parties need to be on the same page. I'm thinking this is a fake post though, but, who knows
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Old 03-20-2015, 03:51 PM
 
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Sounds like she is having her cake and eating it too!!
I have said that about this
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