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If he can't get it up, does he make any effort to please you in other ways? If so, is that not enough??
As someone who has ED due to diabetes, but can certainly please my women in other ways, I have to ask... if the guy is just not wanting to engage in any acts if he cannot perform, that seems selfish of him. But if you are making the situation uncomfortable because of this, maybe look within
I miss the days when ED referred to premature ejaculation. Now there is so much advertising of ED drugs, some women think every guy that can't get it up at the drop of a bra has ED.
MR. ED as you call it can happen to young guys too when you drink too much booze, there's a reason why it's called "whiskey dick" and a million other things.
Don't try and do anything about it, don't make a big deal about it, the proverbial, "it's not you, it's me" applies here.
So in other words, don't based your womanhood on whether a drunk dude can get a stiffy, or even sober for that matter, unless you're in a competition with Quasimodo in the looks department it most likely it isn't you.
Really? You have to actually say Let's fu**? You don't have to have much of an imagination to find any number of ways to convey that rather than the coarsest way possible...
LoL no I've never said anything like that to him if you read back I believe I said I haven't even made the 1st move with him. Actually just made the 1st move last week which was a big step for me because like I said I'm inexperienced and if he wasn't able to perform if would be taken personally. I was with my ex husband since I was 14 so it's very difficult to find my balance of sexuality because with my ex I could say something like "let's fu**" in a whisper and he liked it
I'm 38 and I thought ED came to guys like in their 50 and 60's! So is this what I have to look forward too in 2 years? BTW I have not drank in excess since my college days 15 to 20 years ago, and I never had any problems with ED the opposite in fact. But I know guys are wired to be at their peak in their late teens early 20's(so so very unfair)
I guess it's excessive drinking but honestly 4 beers over a night out with the friends listening to a band or going to an event to me doesn't seem like a lot. Yet before my ex and I didn't drink he'd have a beer after work like twice a week he never had this issue. .. just other issues lol I don't know if this is normal that's why I'm asking because I'd like to know what to expect.
Okay so ED is it an issue that many have ran into? IMHO and a few of my friends believe ED is an issue when guys over 40+ experience when they drink to much? Honestly I'm inexperienced so it's something that is bothersome and makes me feel unattractive. Is there anything you can do to help a guy to workout this issue or is something that he just needs to realize that the more he drinks the more Mr. ED will visit. I know he's had other issues like tightness in his chest and trouble breathing because of the drinking I believe. Please share your insight on this situation. TIA
Your friend seriously needs to take a trip to the doctor. Trouble breathing and tightness of the chest, coupled with ED, could be a serious problem. It could mean he's got a blockage that is keeping the blood flowing to his heart and his member.
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As a friend of mine likes to say, "just because he has whiskey d*** doesn't mean he has whiskey hands or whiskey mouth." Meaning that there are other ways to have a good time.
Lmao very well said lol Only thing is his old fashion when it comes to sex he's not into oral sex which to me is fine.
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