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Old 04-09-2015, 12:42 AM
 
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It doesn't matter, but if you keep it up you'll "be that "bleep" chick" that everyone dislikes because she is flirting with the boss. Even if they don't really care, they will lose respect for you.
I'm not sure I flirt with him so obviously, it seems to be more when people aren't looking he will wink or make something I said naughty when others aren't around so hopefully others havent noticed as some women in our department are totally up his ass
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Old 04-09-2015, 12:57 AM
 
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he wants to bang you.

any other questions?
Yeah lol what now? Doubt he will make a move!
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Old 04-09-2015, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm not sure I flirt with him so obviously, it seems to be more when people aren't looking he will wink or make something I said naughty when others aren't around so hopefully others havent noticed as some women in our department are totally up his ass
What you wrote sounds obvious.
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Old 04-09-2015, 09:46 AM
 
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Let me guess... you work in a call center. You have an attractive boss that ****s all the new, young girls and moves on to the next one when he's done with you

Welcome to working in a call center
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Old 04-09-2015, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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1. Your boss may think that since you are young, you won't consider reporting inappropriate behavior, which is a bad precedent to allow to be set.

2. Your coworkers will either resent you, or completely write you off and dismiss you due to your boss's treatment.

3. Your boss will do the exact same thing to the next person who gets hired who is younger/prettier/more attractive to him.
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Old 04-09-2015, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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He is unprofessional and I doubt he will last there. Work gossip gets ugly fast. Do you want that?
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Old 04-09-2015, 10:00 AM
 
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He is unprofessional and I doubt he will last there. Work gossip gets ugly fast. Do you want that?
Based on my experience, that is VERY common. And I am sure he will last there. Worker bees are replaceable. Especially young ones with not much experience. Unless he is sexually harassing them, he will be fine. If call centers had HR rules against dating in the workplace, there would be no employees, because everyone under 45 does it
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Old 04-09-2015, 10:01 AM
 
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Here is what I thought. You might be looking good or doing a good job at your current job, or simply both, looking good and doing a good job. One way or the other, your boss like you to be around. However, if it escalate to the point where you two get into a relationship, I'm sure your boss will try to save his job if anything ugly happen.

My advice, be on the good side of your boss, but don't take it too far.
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Old 04-09-2015, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Based on my experience, that is VERY common. And I am sure he will last there. Worker bees are replaceable. Especially young ones with not much experience. Unless he is sexually harassing them, he will be fine.
Anybody could make a case for obscene jokes, commentary on having sex in his office, and inappropriate touching/bodily contact, all mentioned in the OP, constituting sexual harassment.
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Old 04-09-2015, 11:06 AM
 
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Let me guess... you work in a call center. You have an attractive boss that ****s all the new, young girls and moves on to the next one when he's done with you

Welcome to working in a call center
No I don't work in a call centre they barely employ new people but when they do they are usually male
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