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Old 04-17-2015, 12:14 AM
 
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I know an individual that is single(no children) Early 40's . Nice looking guy...however I am noticing a trend with him. It seems that he likes older women that are not married. He wines and dine them, takes them out....manages to move in with them after they have dated... I notice that females are always the primary bread winner within the relationship. The females are very well off financially....Maybe Im thinking too hard...But it just seems that seems like his ammo....Excuse the naivety, but are there men out there that prey on women like this?
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:20 AM
 
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Men just cant win. If he was dating a 20 year old he'd be accused of being a perv.But this guy dates older women and still gets accused of preying. I thought women wanted men to date women their own age?
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:30 AM
 
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I know an individual that is single(no children) Early 40's . Nice looking guy...however I am noticing a trend with him. It seems that he likes older women that are not married. He wines and dine them, takes them out....manages to move in with them after they have dated... I notice that females are always the primary bread winner within the relationship. The females are very well off financially....Maybe Im thinking too hard...But it just seems that seems like his ammo....Excuse the naivety, but are there men out there that prey on women like this?
Yes! There are older women who use their financial status and position in life to prey on men.

I agree with the second poster. You use your own bias to describe the situation. If it were a younger woman and a older man, he would be a dirty old man.

Let's have some equality here. Yes, older financial set women like their boy toys too. They prey on younger men.
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:39 AM
 
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Of course. There are people out there who take advantage of anyone they can. There are those who specifically target widows/widowers, the young and naive, the old and lonely. You name it.
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:47 AM
 
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Of course. There are people out there who take advantage of anyone they can. There are those who specifically target widows/widowers, the young and naive, the old and lonely. You name it.
Its really sad too....I mean didn't want to assume anything about him...but since I've known him, that is the pattern that I observed. All the women are very well- to-do with $$$$. He wines and dines them, manages to move in with them in their place.
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:51 AM
 
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Well, maybe the women know they are renting a boy toy.
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:58 AM
 
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Yeah Dhult, I thought we were supposed to date older women because they know what they want. So now these older women don't know what they want and are being preyed on. lol

Who is this guy? I need some gigolo lessons from him.
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Old 04-17-2015, 03:32 AM
 
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Dude finding single, well off chicks over 40? Easier than slapping a baby. Take your pick, move in, move on, don't matter. They are so happy to find a single guy who is not a convicted felon that they are happy for whatever they can get. Hell as a guy you don't even have to be good looking really once you are over 40.
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Old 04-17-2015, 03:38 AM
 
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Men just cant win. If he was dating a 20 year old he'd be accused of being a perv.But this guy dates older women and still gets accused of preying. I thought women wanted men to date women their own age?
LOL, right? Isn't that why POF's loser founder listened to older women and now everyone has their hands held by him as age limits were imposed on everyone? Couldn't count on the women there to use a few brain cells to set their age limits themselves.

I swear feminists say that men shouldn't have a say in who they date, but...OP? That's why I don't give a flying pile of fudge about anyone's opinion of who I date.

Oh, OP, just for future reference, it's not "ammo", it's M.O. As in "modus operandi".

P.S. Once again, women prove to be the biggest shamers of other grown-a$$ adult women and their choices.
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Old 04-17-2015, 03:41 AM
 
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Dude finding single, well off chicks over 40? Easier than slapping a baby. Take your pick, move in, move on, don't matter. They are so happy to find a single guy who is not a convicted felon that they are happy for whatever they can get. Hell as a guy you don't even have to be good looking really once you are over 40.

Um,, I can speak as a woman over 40. That sure as heck wasn't the case, there were men everywhere and a good amount well to do, "normal" ones.
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