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Well of course if someone has cheated in all their past relationships its a pattern, and obviously this person is a cheater, but that's not what we're talking about here. The OP said she cheated in one relationship she had in college, based on that there was a poster who made judgmental statement on her views of infidelity, which I found to be inaccurate.
I dont think its inaccurate at all. TabulaRasa summed it up on post #36. Im not saying the OP will be a repeat offender, what I'm saying is that "it takes a cheater to know a cheaters behavior'.
As far as your own views pertaining to infidelity.... I hope, I never run into a woman like you out in the dating world
As far as your own views pertaining to infidelity.... I hope, I never run into a woman like you out in the dating world
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Good luck finding a woman that has NEVER cheated, not even when she was 18 years old. I'm sure many women tell you they haven't, but most of them have (in my experience). It's very judgemental to say 'I hope I never meet a woman like you because you once cheated on your college boyfriend 7 years ago'. But anyway.
Yes, some people here answered my question really well, thanks to those!
Don't for a second think he will change his ways just becuase "he loves you" and "you love him" if he is still lying and avoiding.
The expectations for what your realtionship "is" are already set with the way you entered in to it.
Have you ever discussed your feelings towards the dread you feel with him becuase of this?
If not, now is the time to have that sit down to evaluate where this thing is going
Good luck finding a woman that has NEVER cheated, not even when she was 18 years old. I'm sure many women tell you they haven't, but most of them have (in my experience). It's very judgemental to say 'I hope I never meet a woman like you because you once cheated on your college boyfriend 7 years ago'. But anyway.
Yes, some people here answered my question really well, thanks to those!
C'mon now, not every woman is like you and your circle of friends, Lol.
Btw: My post wasn't about you, but if the shoe fits, by all means lace them up and wear it.
hope, I never run into a woman like you out in the dating world
Obviously you were talking about me. A woman LIKE ME. It's quite funny how judgemental some people here are. Ohhhh my god, you did something 7 years ago, you're so bad and have no values! LOL. Okay. Bye.
It's quite funny how judgemental some people here are. Ohhhh my god, you did something 7 years ago, you're so bad and have no values! LOL. Okay. Bye.
Wait.
Didn't you just post that "Most women cheat, and if they say they never have, they're probably lying about it, so good luck finding one who never has?"
Yeah, not sure you really have a leg to stand on when categorizing others as "judgemental" [sic], if you're gonna throw around the "C'mon, MOST women cheat and then lie about it" rhetoric.
Why would you contuine to date a man who cheated on another women?
Is it just becuase it was to be with you?
If so, How does this make a difference to the situation?
this is where your issues started, whether you realized it at the time or not.
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