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If a girl is in a relationship, what would it mean if she always chatted with another guy on FB? I met a girl through a mutual friend. We "friended" on FB, and have been chatting about different stuff on FB since we met in person(like 2 weeks now). I'm really crushing on this girl but I respect that she has a BF. I heard her and the mutual friend fighting a little about her and her BF's relationship. Maybe it's going bad. What should I think about the fact that she has been chatting with me ever since we met? Is she just trying to be a buddy or is she interested in me? I'm not much for coming between 2 people. I just don't know why a girl would consistently talk to me if she has a BF, and I already told here I was interested in her the first time I met her.
Ironic, I approached a women the other day and got her number, only to find out she has a boyfriend of 3 years, wth! Are women this lax about their relationships these days?
I've often befriended guys & assumed we were just friends only to find out much later that they were hoping for more. She might just think of you as just a friend she can vent to & maybe get a male perspective on things.
Don't read too much into it. Maybe she is just bored.
This could be true
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Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut
Ironic, I approached a women the other day and got her number, only to find out she has a boyfriend of 3 years, wth! Are women this lax about their relationships these days?
Typically it's not really a great idea, and I think your instincts are telling you that.
If she talks about her BF and he KNOWS about these conversations, that's one thing.
But ONE OF YOU really should set a boundary here, probably the one who has admitted he has "interest."
I've always felt like an adult can make their own decisions. I respect that she has a BF. I don't believe in "stealing " someone else's GF. She makes her own decisions.
Well there is an easy way to settle this but you have to be prepared to follow through...
Tell her you are crushing on her and you don't want to keep talking if you don't have a chance. It will likely put her on the spot but make her answer. if she say yes then ask her on a date, if she says she is not ready then stop talking with her. If she says yes but does not accept the date then stop talking to her.
Either way you should be better off after you push it.
What direction are the chats taking? My concern is that she's getting her ducks in row to break up with him and launch directly into her next relationship. Which is fine if you don't mind sloppy seconds.
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Are women this lax about their relationships these days?
