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Old 07-13-2015, 06:07 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Youre so rude!
One, this should be no surprise to you. Two, I'm way too timid to wake someone up. Three, I have a life that can't wait for someone to wake up. Since I'm typically an early riser anyway (6-7 am) I'm not gonna wait 3 or 4 hours for someone to wake up when I could be out handling business.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:10 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I am an early riser and would hate to sit around for hours waiting for someone to wake up. My husband sleeps later than I do, so I make myself busy without him underfoot or enjoy some quiet time. That would be tough at someone else's house, so I get your frustration and restlessness. There are a few ways to wake a person up that are generally well received, or at least I'd hope so. If that won't work, then yes, a sweet "Babe, I'm taking off" with a kiss would be nice.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:18 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Thats rude to leave without notice. I would appreciate a little handwritten note or something. All that time youre waiting doing nothing, you couldve been making us breakfast, got me some handpicked flowers, and had me waking up to the smell of bacon, instead of your absence and me possibly being confused or angry.
I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not..?

I don't know what's worse.. the guy who leaves without notice or the the girl who wants handpicked flowers for sleeping in

I think it was a sarcastic joke ??
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:31 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not..?

I don't know what's worse.. the guy who leaves without notice or the the girl who wants handpicked flowers for sleeping in

I think it was a sarcastic joke ??
No. Im saying all the time you spent waiting and being bored, you couldve been doing something thoughtful for the sleeping beauty, such as at least making her feel comfortable and not like a cheap ho just because she slept in. This is a girlfriend we are talking about, not a one night stand. Grow up!
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Whatever happened to a gentle kiss "Ill see you in a little bit," even? Jeez! How are you in a relationship and dont have any kind of regard for the persons feelings. Communicate.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:37 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Leaving before she wakes up without even a goodbye or a kiss or anything makes her feel cheap or like a hooker or something, jeez are you guys like 16?
Reality check! nobody likes being woken up in the middle of sleep. It's all fine and lovey dovey in the beginning, but well into a relationship (live in or not) partners start to get ticked off
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Reality check! nobody likes being woken up in the middle of sleep. It's all fine and lovey dovey in the beginning, but well into a relationship (live in or not) partners start to get ticked off
Ever heard of pen and paper? Leave a note.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:45 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Ever heard of pen and paper? Leave a note.
That's old skewl. I use digital telemetry to relay my messages (smartphone text)
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:52 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Seriously? That's sounds kind of high-maintenance (and possibly insecure) to me. A quick text is fine.
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Thats rude to leave without notice. I would appreciate a little handwritten note or something. All that time youre waiting doing nothing, you couldve been making us breakfast, got me some handpicked flowers, and had me waking up to the smell of bacon, instead of your absence and me possibly being confused or angry.
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Old 07-13-2015, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Seriously? That's sounds kind of high-maintenance (and possibly insecure) to me. A quick text is fine.
High maintenance to make breakfast while partner sleeps? My god. ...my god. I think its a normal expectation. Do people not appreciate treating anyone like theyre special anymore?

Welp. I definitely like getting notice or something rather than just leaving out. Im "old skewl" I guess. You walk out on me Im walking out on you forever. Enough of feeling unloved and miscommunication in the world.
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