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Old 08-09-2015, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Somewhere in a Field of Hopes and Dreams
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Ok great reply,I agree pretty much,now just have to figure out how not to leave or push them away.
Or maybe just work on enjoying who you are without a man's attention. You won't remedy your messy approach to men until you fix your own flaws.

Best of luck
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Or...you could marry a man that enjoys being a cuckold.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:07 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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I'm guessing 14, too.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:19 PM
 
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I'm not 14 im in my late twenties
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:25 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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You sure OP it is love and not lust?
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Earth
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It's not love...it's lust and there's nothing wrong with that...be happy. If being with many different guys makes you happy, go with it...don't let anyone shame or intimidate you.

Just be honest with the guys and don't have a BF unless he's okay with it as well. Otherwise you're messing with another persons life and emotions....stay honest.
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Old 08-09-2015, 11:04 PM
 
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No it's not lust I don't think about sex with them,I just fall very quickly for the guy,I hate the situation I don't want multiple partners,I don't want to like a different guy every day,I don't want to cheat or anymore useless superficial dating with different guys every week,I want an actual deep committed relationship with someone I love.

I've had bfs but usually I didn't feel too much for them so I felt safe enough to be in relationship with them,it wasn't threatening,but then I cheated etc.

Right now though I still can't imagine not talking to a different guy everyday,I had a bf a few months ago and I was still on dating sites checking them all the time,honestly people who are monogamous are amazing.
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Old 08-09-2015, 11:17 PM
 
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Just avoid committed relationships and enjoy yourself.
If and when you are ready to commit to someone, you will know

Until then...have fun and be safe.

You're just not ready for committed relationships....and that's not something you can just flip a switch and make happen. It comes with life experience and preference
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Old 08-10-2015, 12:14 AM
 
Location: Europe
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By stopping rambling and making actions. There is no excuses but only inside your head. You just start to make a difference and not wait the better mood to start it.
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Old 08-10-2015, 07:23 AM
 
Location: Earth
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No it's not lust I don't think about sex with them,I just fall very quickly for the guy,I hate the situation I don't want multiple partners,I don't want to like a different guy every day,I don't want to cheat or anymore useless superficial dating with different guys every week,I want an actual deep committed relationship with someone I love.

I've had bfs but usually I didn't feel too much for them so I felt safe enough to be in relationship with them,it wasn't threatening,but then I cheated etc.
You say it's not about sex but then you said you cheated...??
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