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Old 08-10-2015, 01:31 AM
 
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I have a friend who is living with a girl and their son, except that it was planned by her without him having a say. And still he has stuck around although I can't imagine why anyone would want to do that. She poked a hole in a condom and bingo he's a dad. I know another guy in a similar situation but he walked away and I say good for him. I don't want this to happen to me and I would like to know how to avoid it.
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Old 08-10-2015, 01:44 AM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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You know how to avoid it.
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Old 08-10-2015, 02:57 AM
 
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Yeah, its happened to me. Further, she was "on" birth control. So there i was with a kid on the way from sex that i had with a condom, with bc. I nearly flipped. Lady was like, i want to keep it..i told her that all i know is that I'll be on the first plane to Jamaica and if she wanted to follow, that was fine.

Dont trust these women.
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Old 08-10-2015, 03:02 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Don't ever have sex with a woman!

Poking holes, LOL
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Old 08-10-2015, 04:42 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Get a vasectomy. Never leave birth control up to anyone but you.
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Old 08-10-2015, 06:05 AM
 
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Bring your own condom to the rodeo.
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Old 08-10-2015, 06:08 AM
 
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And flush em down the toilet. Guys should know this
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Old 08-10-2015, 06:38 AM
 
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I have a friend who is living with a girl and their son, except that it was planned by her without him having a say. And still he has stuck around although I can't imagine why anyone would want to do that. She poked a hole in a condom and bingo he's a dad. I know another guy in a similar situation but he walked away and I say good for him. I don't want this to happen to me and I would like to know how to avoid it.
You know damn well how to avoid it! Open up and put on the condom yourself without anybody else having access to it before you have sex.

These posts are so frickin' fake it's hilarious. Really? She poked a hole in his rubber and now he's a Papa? This happened to two of your buddies and neither of them knew how to avoid it? Now your worried that your next fling will want to steal your seed and trap you? smh
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Old 08-10-2015, 08:14 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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And flush em down the toilet. Guys should know this
Not if you're a homeowner.. Flushing condoms will royally F* up your plumbing!
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Old 08-10-2015, 09:40 AM
 
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I have a friend who is living with a girl and their son, except that it was planned by her without him having a say. And still he has stuck around although I can't imagine why anyone would want to do that. She poked a hole in a condom and bingo he's a dad. I know another guy in a similar situation but he walked away and I say good for him. I don't want this to happen to me and I would like to know how to avoid it.
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Yeah, its happened to me. Further, she was "on" birth control. So there i was with a kid on the way from sex that i had with a condom, with bc. I nearly flipped. Lady was like, i want to keep it..i told her that all i know is that I'll be on the first plane to Jamaica and if she wanted to follow, that was fine.

Dont trust these women.
Why are you guys sleeping with trash. These women have to be the bottom of the barrel to think a life living in poverty on food stamps and child support checks they have to obtain by poking holes in condoms is living the life. And their poor children growing up knowing their father never wanted anything to do with them. Hated the thought of them so they would leave the country.

Why don't you guys be more responsible and try not to create a child that will be doomed to poverty and abandonment. Is that really the legacy you want to leave behind?
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