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Guys will sense your desperation to get married. Most guys don't want to marry a woman who is desperate to be married.
I am not desperate to marry. I never married my sons father and we were together 7 years. I wont marry just any guy for the sake of getting married. I want to meet and marry the guy that ends up being my best friend.
Not having sex until you are married is a cute idea in this day in age, but I doubt rarely happens unless you are a teenager. Maybe in the 1950's and 60's this was the norm, but I don't see it entering into whether or not a man goes for a woman.
I would think in this day and age a guy is not going to hang around forever if the woman says she is saving herself for marriage. What happens if you hold out and then find out you aren't sexually compatible? Maybe you like to get your freak on and she likes plain old vanilla sex?
I think if you are over thirty there is an unspoken expectation that if you click with someone, there is going to be sex. I personally hate it when a woman uses sex as a weapon to get her own way. I dated a woman who supposedly loved sex (so she told me when we met) but it was like pulling teeth to get any. I swear the woman had some of the best excuses. My favorite used to be "if you take me to dinner and are a good boy, I will let you have sex tonight". Priceless. Needless to say that one is gone.
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