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I am having major issues with my long term on again off again Bf of 20yrs we reunited in 2013 after a 3year break. We moved in together he was having some legal issues but I loved him and helped him get his life back on track I helped him get a job completing the applications for him all was well to he lost his job he began to be emotionally mentally abusive towards me treating me bad staying out allnight hanging in the streets. He began to distance himself from me sleeping on couch n being disrespectful we stop going places he dnt help pay bills and refuse to care about my well being I usually have to Tex him to communicate because he usually just ignore me I try to figure out what's wrong but he want talk to me. I lost my mom and son this year and all he's done was added stress to my stress. Now he's saying he wants to go his separate way then one min he love me with all he has put me on a emotional roller coaster and I want to no why he acting this way when I always been by his side loved him and helped him finacially etc. I'm very sad because he's throwing all this in me at once I feel like he used me n want to no why should i care should I move on with my life and get him out my system I'm so shocked that anyone would treat a person so wrong for no reason. I love him but I hurt worse when he treat me bad and I dnt no why would should I do
Not sure what application you filed for him a green card? You mention he's 20 or you been together for 20 years in the past?
Perhaps he lost respect of you for some reason this why he acting this way.
Maybe he lied from beginning to get his papers.
Maybe he started using drugs and its side effects.
Maybe he thinks you cheating.
Maybe he has mental issue.
Too many options.
You should not let anyone treat you without respect regardless of reason why.
Luckily you are women and have many legal options against him, its so much more difficult for a man in similar situation...
First off it's "know" not no..........stop being the enabler and curb that cancerous tumor. He treats you like this because you let him. He is unemployed, you have all the power, so use it.
What's so hilarious about a serious situation? Last I thought this was a support forum so if you can't give positive feed back then why respond to the post??? I didn't post this for corrections on spelling etc. only advice so please stop with the jokes it's not funny u never know a persons situation
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