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Old 11-28-2015, 10:47 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Depends on whether or not you care about it. If you care, I would guess maybe after you talk to the person about having mouth herpes (kind of how you might talk about STDs before having sex).
We all know that STDs are a sensitive subject so how the hell do you bring it up in conversation before sex? Or even better on a first date?

I think you've got more chance of doing the Hokey Cokey on one leg than getting layed if that's your game
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Old 11-28-2015, 10:52 AM
 
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I can't imagine asking someone about herpes (if they had no visible signs of herpes) before kissing. I'd rather just go ahead and do it and disinfect my lips afterwards if I was really worried (which I'm not).
I doubt you can stop it by disinfecting, just like you can't stop it by disinfecting after sex.

BTW, would you talk about STD's before having sex if they had no visible signs?
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Old 11-28-2015, 10:53 AM
 
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We all know that STDs are a sensitive subject so how the hell do you bring it up in conversation before sex? Or even better on a first date?
So, you have sex without ever discussing STD's?
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Old 11-28-2015, 11:03 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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So, you have sex without ever discussing STD's?
Nope never.

although it's a valid point here in the uk we don't talk about it and it's certainly not something I would bring up in club after meeting one

Ive done dating, ONS ,FWB , lads holidays , pubs, clubs , bars etc for 14 years and met plenty along the way after it was mentioned on CD before I got myself checked out and I'm clean as a whistle in case your wondering.
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Old 11-28-2015, 12:32 PM
 
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I doubt you can stop it by disinfecting, just like you can't stop it by disinfecting after sex.

BTW, would you talk about STD's before having sex if they had no visible signs?
Maybe. I asked one guy to get an HIV test (I got one too).
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:06 PM
 
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Ok so this is just a continued discussion from the other thread. How many dates would it be appropriate to go in for the kiss? Haha not going to lie, I was reading the other thread and seems like alot of you are shocked they did not kiss after the 3rd date and tbh, I'm shocked that you guys think that?

Am i the only one that thinks it's too soon/early? Or maybe from my experiences, I've always hung out with multiple guys at once and once Ive short listed who I hit it off best, it's already on the 5th or 6th date when things get a lil more serious. And even THEN, I kind of wait til the right moment and then we kissed.. which could be the 7th or 8th time we hung out lol. Doesn't always happen ! But usually if I'm talking to multiple guys at once lol. Am I the one being not normal hahah
FYI, for you and other posters. It helps if you give your general age when asking such things.
You sound like you may be a teen ?
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:09 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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FYI, for you and other posters. It helps if you give your general age when asking such things.
You sound like you may be a teen ?
31 in 2 weeks LOL
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, California
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FYI, for you and other posters. It helps if you give your general age when asking such things.
You sound like you may be a teen ?
She is in her 20s. And what does age have to do with this thread?
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:17 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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She is in her 20s. And what does age have to do with this thread?
Hi izzy

I believe he's trying to work out people's maturity levels based on there posts

I thought I'd tell him my age so he doesn't think I am 10!!!! LOL
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:21 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, California
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Hi izzy

I believe he's trying to work out people's maturity levels based on there posts

I thought I'd tell him my age so he doesn't think I am 10!!!! LOL
Why would anyone think that? :P
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