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She's a stalker, and she could be dangerous. Have you told her flat out to leave you alone, do not contact you or come near you? Do it, keep a record of it (recorded or in writing), and when she violates (which she will) you need to get the police involved.
Do you want to be safe, or do you want to protect some psycho's precious feelings?
She seems to hell-bent on sabotaging this relationship. Does she always expect the worst? Or just from you?
She always expects the worst. I left her and I think she cant handle the fact that I was the first guy to dump her. She always bragged about her dumping and never being dumped.
She always expects the worst. I left her and I think she cant handle the fact that I was the first guy to dump her. She always bragged about her dumping and never being dumped.
You still seem to be judging her words and action based on those of a rational, healthy person. You are not getting it, dude.
She is mentally ill. She is unpredictable and dangerous. Stop trying to analyze her and get her out of your life immediately and forever. Don't sit by and do nothing, you will regret it.
You still seem to be judging her words and action based on those of a rational, healthy person. You are not getting it, dude.
She is mentally ill. She is unpredictable and dangerous. Stop trying to analyze her and get her out of your life immediately and forever. Don't sit by and do nothing, you will regret it.
I have told her many times that she needs to stop following me and that I want to be single. She just says things like "I changed... why are you giving up so easily! We were suppose to be together I cant imagine losing the person I loved most." Honestly she is kinda creepy, but I dont think she would do anything dangerous.. she is acting like a child I find.
Look I broke up with her.. What else can i do.. having contact with her is just gonna make her run back more. i went NC on her.
No you didn't go NC. You apparently do not know what that term means. She is still contacting you, you are reading her letters, and still allowing her to approach you in public. You have not issued an ultimatum and you seem unwilling to treat this situation as criminal stalking and harassment.
And how dare you ask "What else can I do?"
I just TOLD YOU what "else" you can "do." Are you being disingenuous or just clueless?
She certainly picked the right passive target. Like I said, good luck, you're gonna need it.
I ended up going somewhere, and we bumped into each other in the parking lot, next thing I know she puts my hands on her legs and upper. Next thing I know we do sexual. SHE SEDUCED ME! Now she is saying that we are seeing each other, and I told her we are not and I made an excuse saying I had to leave and left.
So you've just taught her that you don't mean what you say, and no matter how atrociously she behaves, as long as she goes psycho blowing up your phone, stalking you, and begging and pleading, you'll take her back.
Nailed it. Good luck, OP.
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