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Old 12-14-2015, 05:41 PM
 
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Went to boy friends company xmas party days ago and I drank with one of his co worker and we talked for almost an hour. And I can see he is very interested in me but the things is this year me and my partner always talking about break up/open relationship and I really don't know what should I do .. If I want to know this guy should I just add his social media such as face book? Or this will just end up a disaster ! Help!
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Old 12-14-2015, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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An entire hour drinking and flirting with a coworker at your boyfriends Christmas party? Where's the boyfriend? at home? Lol
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Old 12-14-2015, 05:49 PM
 
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Firstly He is besides me and after probably busy drink with other co worker .. They hold the xmas party at a club.
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Old 12-14-2015, 05:53 PM
 
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Went to boy friends company xmas party days ago and I drank with one of his co worker and we talked for almost an hour. And I can see he is very interested in me but the things is this year me and my partner always talking about break up/open relationship and I really don't know what should I do .. If I want to know this guy should I just add his social media such as face book? Or this will just end up a disaster ! Help!
OP:

Exactly what do you want to happen after drinking and flirting with a male co-worker of your boyfriend?

Exactly why would you want to add this guy to your Facebook page?

Exactly what do you want from this guy?
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Old 12-14-2015, 05:53 PM
 
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Went to boy friends company xmas party days ago and I drank with one of his co worker and we talked for almost an hour. And I can see he is very interested in me but the things is this year me and my partner always talking about break up/open relationship and I really don't know what should I do .. If I want to know this guy should I just add his social media such as face book? Or this will just end up a disaster ! Help!
So why don't you clarify with your boyfriend about your relationship status first, & if all is good then proceed freely with the new one?
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Old 12-14-2015, 05:55 PM
 
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If you want to break up with your BF, break up. If both of you want an open relationship, then do that.

None of those decisions should have anything to do with some guy you have known for, literally, one hour.
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Old 12-14-2015, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Firstly He is besides me and after probably busy drink with other co worker .. They hold the xmas party at a club.
Right beside you while all this is going down, eh?

Anyhow, its seems your bf don't give a crap about your scandal. I say go ahead and Facebook this chump.
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Old 12-14-2015, 06:22 PM
 
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If you want to break up with your BF, break up. If both of you want an open relationship, then do that.

None of those decisions should have anything to do with some guy you have known for, literally, one hour.


This^^^
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Old 12-14-2015, 06:35 PM
 
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Years ago (20+) I went to my GF's Holiday Party and ended up at a table with a guy I found a bit nerdy but he was a trust funder. Lots of talking, and it was not me and my GF. Next thing you know ... she went on an employee ski trip where partners were supposedly disinvited. Guess who was also on that trip. Guess who was then my ex-GF!
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Old 12-14-2015, 06:50 PM
 
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The things is I'm not sure I want an open relationship but if me and partner do go ahead. I'm definitely have some chemistry with this guy but just a bit weird as he is my boy friends co worker...
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