My girlfriend has as friend on facebook a guy she had sex years ago and she doesn't unfriend him? (married, love)
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The #1 thing I learned about fb: Don't worry about what you see on facebook- worry about what you don't see on facebook. Lol. So if you *seriously* believe your gf is the kind of woman to be completely sketchy & a cheating liar ( ) , then that dude is probably just a decoy anyway and nobody to worry about.
If you are that jealous and insecure you don't need to be in a relationship.
Yes, you need to have a certain amount of trust in your partner, but your current partner should be more important to you than people who you had sex with in the past. So if they want you to unfriend an ex who you have no valid reason to be in contact with anyway, I personally think you should.
Why should she have to suffer and have her FB activity censored, and deal with a jealous bf just because you have a problem? Your jealousy and insecurities will not serve you well in life. This will be a recurring problem in future relationships, and will drive people away from you. Get some professional help in dealing with your issues. You'll be a lot happier for it.
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Yes, you need to have a certain amount of trust in your partner, but your current partner should be more important to you than people who you had sex with in the past. So if they want you to unfriend an ex who you have no valid reason to be in contact with anyway, I personally think you should.
Maybe if it was a recent fling and they still see each other and there's still a temptation between them, I'd agree with this. But someone who was a FWB in college 20 years ago who was a friend before the benefits and lives in another state with his wife and children I don't see the need to unfriend.
It also depends on how you use FB - if you friend everyone you know from birth to someone you "talked" to once on Ok Cupid, that's a lot different from those who only "friend" people they know and have a real life connection with. I think a lot of people "collect" friends on FB rather than have real relationships with them.
Maybe if it was a recent fling and they still see each other and there's still a temptation between them, I'd agree with this. But someone who was a FWB in college 20 years ago who was a friend before the benefits and lives in another state with his wife and children I don't see the need to unfriend.
It also depends on how you use FB - if you friend everyone you know from birth to someone you "talked" to once on Ok Cupid, that's a lot different from those who only "friend" people they know and have a real life connection with. I think a lot of people "collect" friends on FB rather than have real relationships with them.
I agree with you. I just don't think Facebook is as harmless as some people think. Lots of cheating starts on Facebook. Sure you can say if a person is going to cheat, they'll do it anyway but communicating with former flames on Facebook definitely helps the process.
She's still having sex with him. You should dump her.
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So if you *seriously* believe your gf is the kind of woman to be completely sketchy & a cheating liar ( 
) , then that dude is probably just a decoy anyway and nobody to worry about.
