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Old 02-02-2016, 08:36 AM
 
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Get and find another girl
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Old 02-02-2016, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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I've been dating a girl for about a month and things were just perfect. So I took things too seriously and showed too much interest what made her lost interest in me so we stopped dating. A month after a break up we still talk sometimes (sms/fb/snapchat) but not much, like once a week a few messages. But I don't feel like she's interested.

now the thing... Today she came to my school to meet her bestfriend. When she was waiting for her she has been talking to her bestfriends boyfriend. They were sitting next too my locker. So when i came to change they started to have a conversation about a guy she is dating now (his friend). The conversation they were having was so obvious to be made up before. He asked her about that guy (a friend of his) she's dating and she said, he doesnt text her back and that they were only on 1 date.. the other was just some random talk. I said nothing expect bye when I left. By the way me and her friends boyfriend hate each other.

I think she's still dating that guy but I don't know why would she say so obviously that in front of me?


Shes known for not being mean to anyone. She's a nice girl.
I still love her but I think she knows i'm texting a girl who is a perf10, but there is nothing serious yet.

What is the best think I can do?
Here's the sad fact of the matter here; if you were capable of following the advice needed to flip this situation, you wouldn't be in this position to begin with.

Sorry to break it to you.
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Old 02-02-2016, 10:24 AM
 
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Here's the sad fact of the matter here; if you were capable of following the advice needed to flip this situation, you wouldn't be in this position to begin with.

Sorry to break it to you.
This was a great comment and you are a great help to him.
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Old 02-02-2016, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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1) She is definitely making me jealous, bacause weeks ago she also sent me snapchat selfie with him.
2) I never said I liked her. She's just hot.
3) Well I have to hate him because he's doing all he can to convince her i'm a bad person.. With lies ofcouse.
Yeah you did. Don't lie. See below from your OP.

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Shes known for not being mean to anyone. She's a nice girl.
I still love her but I think she knows i'm texting a girl who is a perf10, but there is nothing serious yet.

What is the best think I can do?
The best thing you can do is shut your locker, get to class, and quit worrying about this stupid kind of crap - it's childish. High School will be over soon and it'll be nothing more than a distant, albeit cringe-worthy due to how you're reacting, memory.
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Old 02-02-2016, 10:49 AM
 
Location: OHIO
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Yeah you did. Don't lie. See below from your OP.



The best thing you can do is shut your locker, get to class, and quit worrying about this stupid kind of crap - it's childish. High School will be over soon and it'll be nothing more than a distant, albeit cringe-worthy due to how you're reacting, memory.
I believe he was saying he doesn't like the new girl he's texting now, he just thinks she is hot. He still likes the previous girl. That's how I read it anyway.

But I agree with you about the looking back and this being a cringe-worthy memory lol

Yes, the best advice is to let go of this girl and just ignore her and move on. If she's trying to make you jealous why would you want to let her win? Just ignore her and her friends and forget about them. Also, if you're not actually into this new girl, then don't lead her on because that's not fair to her. Just enjoy high school while you can.
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Old 02-02-2016, 10:58 AM
 
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Yes, OP is going to be so embarrassed by his high-school self if he ever grows out of this stage.

OP: ASK DAD.
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Old 02-02-2016, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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This was a great comment and you are a great help to him.
Trust me, even if we told him what to do, it wouldn't matter because he couldn't do it.
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Old 02-02-2016, 01:54 PM
 
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I've been dating a girl for about a month and things were just perfect. So I took things too seriously and showed too much interest what made her lost interest in me so we stopped dating. A month after a break up we still talk sometimes (sms/fb/snapchat) but not much, like once a week a few messages. But I don't feel like she's interested.

now the thing... Today she came to my school to meet her bestfriend. When she was waiting for her she has been talking to her bestfriends boyfriend. They were sitting next too my locker. So when i came to change they started to have a conversation about a guy she is dating now (his friend). The conversation they were having was so obvious to be made up before. He asked her about that guy (a friend of his) she's dating and she said, he doesnt text her back and that they were only on 1 date.. the other was just some random talk. I said nothing expect bye when I left. By the way me and her friends boyfriend hate each other.

I think she's still dating that guy but I don't know why would she say so obviously that in front of me?


Shes known for not being mean to anyone. She's a nice girl.
I still love her but I think she knows i'm texting a girl who is a perf10, but there is nothing serious yet.

What is the best think I can do?
ignore her completely. stop texting her, stop talking to her, stop calling her. she ended the relationship, not you. apparently she has decided she made a mistake, and probably wants you back. dont give in, just cut off all contact with her.
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Old 02-02-2016, 02:03 PM
 
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ignore her completely. stop texting her, stop talking to her, stop calling her. she ended the relationship, not you. apparently she has decided she made a mistake, and probably wants you back. dont give in, just cut off all contact with her.
But is it possible to be with her again after some time? I'll cut contacts off. That's what I was planing to do...
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Old 02-02-2016, 02:43 PM
 
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But is it possible to be with her again after some time? I'll cut contacts off. That's what I was planing to do...
DUDE please find another girl
I think another may possibly be more hotter than her
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