Are There Any Dealbreakers You Used To Have That Aren't Dealbreakers Anymore? (date, men)

[Japanfan1986]

Just curious. If so what are they and what made you change your mind?

I don't really have any to share (sorry).

[NewYorker11356]

Height used to be one for me.

[Raena77]

I used to only be attracted to Italian men. I learned looks are less important and personality is more true of the person themself.

[AtkinsonDan]

I haven't dropped any dealbreakers that I can think of right now.

[BellaLind]

Most of my deal breakers are pretty common like no criminals, no drugs, no addictions that are science fiction related. Ok I'm joking on that last one.

I haven't relaxed any deal breakers. In fact I think I've added more as I've gotten older. I think because I take relationships more seriously now. In high school I was a kid and in college relationships were temporary in a way. Guys transferred schools or we were all going our own ways after school. Now I see the men I date as having long term potential and some things matter more that didn't before such as being truly comparable with life goals.

[stan4]

No.
If anything, I have more.
I think it's because I repeatedly proved I could get everything I wanted without sacrificing anything.
Also because being with someone isn't worth having to put up with nonsense or other annoying things I can't stand.

[TabulaRasa]

Military service as a career.

[mishigas73]

Originally Posted by stan4

No.
If anything, I have more.
I think it's because I repeatedly proved I could get everything I wanted without sacrificing anything.
Also because being with someone isn't worth having to put up with nonsense or other annoying things I can't stand.

Yup, this.

[Metaphysique]

No. I became even more selective overtime.

[torontocheeka]

No. I've only developed more dealbreakers as I've gotten older.