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Perhaps a strange question, but have you considered moving elsewhere? It sounds like the pickings are either slim in your area or have already been picked over multiple times.
No I grew up where I am. Plus I have to stay until my son is 18. I do want to move to a warmer climate at that point.
I often feel like the good ones are married, and what's left has been picked through. It is like injustice have to grab one that I can at least tolerate their dysfunction or just hang it up.
Well then I guess I need to get use to being single, if my league is prisoners, ex cons, fat men and drinkers.
Into every woman's life a few jerks and losers will attempt to fall. But if that's ALL you are attracting, the problem is you, and you have to ask yourself why you're a crap-magnet. Keep doing what you're doing and keep being how you're being, and you'll keep getting what you're getting.
And I can say "Count your blesses you don't have to deal with bad options."
Bottom line, for some people, if they don't want the options they have, there is nothing to be thankful for. They're still single. And still sexless.
For anyone having trouble, the problem is them, personally. Not their gender. If you're not charming enough to get a woman, that's your issue. Not because you're a man. Since other men managed to get their women. Everyone has to have something. If you're just average / plain all around and nothing about you stands out, you'll have trouble and no good experiences to write about. Something has to pop about you. If you're ugly/plain and boring, good luck.
You're entitled to your opinion. I'll stick to facts.
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Any person who does not meet he typical standard for attractiveness and who is boring on top of that is going to have a hard time finding dates/ a relationship, harder than if they were classically beautiful or handsome and had a sparkling personality. Do you seriously not get this?
Once again, women have it easier.Is it hard for women ? I'm sure they face SOME obstacles but it's not that hard compared to what men have to go through.
Into every woman's life a few jerks and losers will attempt to fall. But if that's ALL you are attracting, the problem is you, and you have to ask yourself why you're a crap-magnet. Keep doing what you're doing and keep being how you're being, and you'll keep getting what you're getting.
It seems to be all that I attract. The last one seemed to have promise but nope.
Once again, women have it easier.Is it hard for women ? I'm sure they face SOME obstacles but it's not that hard compared to what men have to go through.
When was the last time you experienced dating as a woman?
You're entitled to your opinion. I'll stick to facts.
Once again, women have it easier.Is it hard for women ? I'm sure they face SOME obstacles but it's not that hard compared to what men have to go through.
I will say one thing women have easier than me is casually dating. If a fairly attractive woman wants to just casually date she likely can, because she can likely attract a male who's fairly traditional. One thing I can't do is likely attract women I'm attracted to who will reverse the roles and pay for me to go out.
I can get a woman to pay for me, but it's likely because she can't get any man and she's trying to make something work with just anybody.
Once again, women have it easier.Is it hard for women ? I'm sure they face SOME obstacles but it's not that hard compared to what men have to go through.
Tough.
Everyone has it better/worse than someone else. Guess what? This is life, you don't get a ribbon just for participating.
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It's not a breeze for women I got 50+ visits yesterday and only three messages and im not all that hideous.i added hippy/hippie to my profile though and that helped a lot,im getting guys I actually like now.
I will say one thing women have easier than me is casually dating. If a fairly attractive woman wants to just casually date she likely can, because she can likely attract a male who's fairly traditional. One thing I can't do is likely attract women I'm attracted to who will reverse the roles and pay for me to go out.
I can get a woman to pay for me, but it's likely because she can't get any man and she's trying to make something work with just anybody.
In general women have a lot of things easier but it is what it is.
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