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I've noticed in my family, a lot of people are on their second spouses or married to someone who is divorced or had a baby momma or daddy. To me, this is not negligible. I feel the person still loves their former spouse. If you're a second spouse, what do you feel about your partner's first spouse and baby momma/daddy?
Believe it or not, people can/have fall out of love and fall in love with someone else.
You were never really in love then. I believe two people can love each other and not be be good together/live together. I don't believe you can love someone fully and then one day be like "I hate him.her".
You were never really in love then. I believe two people can love each other and not be be good together/live together. I don't believe you can love someone fully and then one day be like "I hate him.her".
I doubt it happens overnight; more like death by 1000 paper cuts.
I doubt it happens overnight; more like death by 1000 paper cuts.
Even so, it's not loss of love imo. For example, if I gained 100lbs. I'm still me. I'm still lovable. Many men would say they fell out of love. Same with men. Many lose their jobs and get dumped. He still has the same personality. It's not loss of love to me. Unless it's love of look and money.
You were never really in love then. I believe two people can love each other and not be be good together/live together. I don't believe you can love someone fully and then one day be like "I hate him.her".
So, youre saying once someone falls "in love" with someone, they will always be "in love" with that person?
Even so, it's not loss of love imo. For example, if I gained 100lbs. I'm still me. I'm still lovable. Many men would say they fell out of love. Same with men. Many lose their jobs and get dumped. He still has the same personality. It's not loss of love to me. Unless it's love of look and money.
Depends. If you gained 100 pounds because of an illness or something, yes you're still you. If gained it because you stopped taking care of yourself or no longer care about how you look, then no you are not the same person. If you lose your job and stop trying to find a new one while the family sinks into debt, then no you are not the same person. Looks and money are superficial; it's what is going on under the surface that can cause one spouse to fall out of love with the other.
So, youre saying once someone falls "in love" with someone, they will always be "in love" with that person?
Yes. To some degree. However, I think sometimes it's easy to mistake other things for love. Even know you're not in love, like say just friends, and have a good marriage until you meet someone you do love.
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