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Old 04-01-2016, 03:02 AM
 
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It's been quite awhile; I don't even remember the movie but during it I remember a scene where a woman found out her live-in boyfriend was cheating and in one scene the gf was shown throwing all of his stuff, clothes, photos, material possessions etc, out the window and told him he was kicked out and couldn't come back at which point my gf exclaimed "What a piece of ****, he deserved it". While a movie, I do wonder, assuming you think such a thing (throwing clothes and other personal belongings out a windows and kicking them out) is acceptable, would you think it would be acceptable in the reverse? If a man had solid proof his gf was cheating would you think it okay for him to throw/leave her stuff on the door step and kick her out?

The reason I ask is because it seems as if a man cheats it's one of the worst things anyone can do, but if a woman cheats it's all the man's fault and he should've done more.
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:09 AM
 
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It's worse when a woman cheats in my opinion. Women cheat out of spite. Men cheat because they're horny. Generalizing, I know.
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:21 AM
 
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Cheating is cheating, no matter what the reason. A cheater is hurting other people for selfish reasons. If a person isn't happy in a relationship, step up to the plate and call it quits so everyone can go about their life.
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:26 AM
 
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Cheating is cheating, no matter what the reason. A cheater is hurting other people for selfish reasons. If a person isn't happy in a relationship, step up to the plate and call it quits so everyone can go about their life.
Yeah but a man can be happy with his relationship but still cheat out of biological drive. It's a bit different.
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:30 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No difference at all!!!

As for kicking someone out........ Even if she done the dirty on me and cheated I'd still make sure she had somewhere to go first as opposed to chucking her out on the street.

One bad turn doesn't deserve another
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:34 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Yeah but a man can be happy with his relationship but still cheat out of biological drive. It's a bit different.
Assuming this were even true, the disrespect inherent in breaching your partner's trust would still be a factor.

Whether or not you make a case for infidelity being justifiable, the fact remains that if you cheat (versus end your relationship prior to pursuing other options), you're disrespecting your partner and abusing his or her trust. That sucks no matter your gender.
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Old 04-01-2016, 04:35 AM
 
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At any rate, throwing crap of of windows is pretty needlessly high drama no matter who cheated.
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Old 04-01-2016, 05:21 AM
 
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I don't agree with throwing the person out in either case and have said so in the past. If he or she lives there, the person has a right to be evicted through legal means and not be rendered homeless. Destroying someone else's property is not OK.
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Old 04-01-2016, 10:25 AM
 
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It's terrible and equal heartbreak either way. Both men and women love and both men and women hurt.
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Old 04-01-2016, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Cheating is bad no matter if a man or woman does it. It could cause a person to lose faith and trust in the opposite sex.
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