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Firstly WE HAVE ALL tried to help the OP with guidance, advice and the emotional support to HELP him and secondly yes at times we've had a lark and a laugh but the OP has taken most of it in jest which is how it should be mate
And thank you for contributing to my bet in reaching 200 pages mate lmao
He's saying it for your concern not to have a laugh at you mate. The worst thing possible is that she turns around and says no and then after all this time invested and dreaming will leave you feeling useless and hurt
It's actually a very serious concern mate and I'm not being funny here
Im aware of this. I have thought about it allot. She's not there sometimes Im not there. She's aware of my circumstances and schedule. I cant change that.
Sometimes I only see her once a week or at most twice.
I have no idea what to do.
She did seemed pleased when I told her I don't go out like at all. I realize delaying could backfire. I GET ALL of this. But I feel frustrated. Can I even make the time? dating is like having a pet that needs constant attention.
I'm sorry, but I don't see an ounce of progress from page 1 of this 144 page thread/ other than you giving different variations of the fantasy you've created in your mind.
If it has? When is your first date?
Lots of delays. lets say. I dont always see her like all the time. Or everyday like school or like work or whatever
Im aware of this. I have thought about it allot. She's not there sometimes Im not there. She's aware of my circumstances and schedule. I cant change that.
Sometimes I only see her once a week or at most twice.
I have no idea what to do.
She did seemed pleased when I told her I don't go out like at all. I realize delaying could backfire. I GET ALL of this. But I feel frustrated. Can I even make the time? dating is like having a pet that needs constant attention.
I don't know what you mean she seemed pleased you don't go out?
But if I were you I wouldn't even give her a second thought until you actually see her.... I know after all this time it's hard but try
If you act on impulse when you see her you will act more clearly and naturally and won't appear awkward or like you've been thinking of nothing else mate.
I'm dead serious don't give her a second thought and should the worst happen you won't feel as bad I promise
Im aware of this. I have thought about it allot. She's not there sometimes Im not there. She's aware of my circumstances and schedule. I cant change that.
Sometimes I only see her once a week or at most twice.
I have no idea what to do.
She did seemed pleased when I told her I don't go out like at all. I realize delaying could backfire. I GET ALL of this. But I feel frustrated. Can I even make the time? dating is like having a pet that needs constant attention.
Treat dating this woman like you treat updating this thread - this thread is what is currently getting your constant attention.
Consider this - you've been posting all day today, in frequent intervals, starting with three posts from 7:30 pacific standard time, then another post around 10:00 am, and again around 1:00 pm, and now again several times around 4:00 pm. Maybe your busy schedule is only as busy as you want it to be?
Does not compute, SD. If you are really so busy, yet find time to read all our posts and reply to them, that is time you could instead utilize for texting your girlfriend, discussing your plans for after you're both done with your daily commitments and subsequent evening get-together. Doesn't that sound better than telling us the same three-four sentences over and over again for the last two months, SD?
Do you actually read any of our responses? Or are you being obtuse and continuing to use "allot," which means "to allocate" instead of "a lot" which means "very much" just to **** me off, given the number of times I've pointed out the difference?
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Originally Posted by Swan Dive
Can I even make the time? dating is like having a pet that needs constant attention.
Trust me (and everyone else posting in this thread who I know will agree with me) if you were truly interested in her, you would find a way to make the time.
I'm betting she didn't "make an appearance" at the gym today.
Do you actually read any of our responses? Or are you being obtuse and continuing to use "allot," which means "to allocate" instead of "a lot" which means "very much" just to **** me off, given the number of times I've pointed out the difference?
Trust me (and everyone else posting in this thread who I know will agree with me) if you were truly interested in her, you would find a way to make the time.
I'm betting she didn't "make an appearance" at the gym today.
That's because she's probably already on vacation aka working out at the gym across town.
Do you actually read any of our responses? Or are you being obtuse and continuing to use "allot," which means "to allocate" instead of "a lot" which means "very much" just to **** me off, given the number of times I've pointed out the difference?
Trust me (and everyone else posting in this thread who I know will agree with me) if you were truly interested in her, you would find a way to make the time.
I'm betting she didn't "make an appearance" at the gym today.
I am interested. Its hard to make time right now, I have like maybe one day a week maybe an evening thats it.
I havent seen her a week. its hard to assess interest with someone you know that well just yet.
Yesterday I did 5am -830pm. I do have days like that yes.
. Can I even make the time? dating is like having a pet that needs constant attention.
Oh boy! More excuses. How fun! I love this place
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