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Don't know about your parents or your friends. But the affair partner's wife has a right to know. Either you or your husband should tell her that her husband cheated on her. Sounds like your husband's level of anger over your affair may end your marriage, this is understandable and it's unfortunate but it's your fault op. Trust in a marriage is very important and once broken can be impossible to restore. He sounds like a good guy, too bad.
Don't know about your parents or your friends. But the affair partner's wife has a right to know. Either you or your husband should tell her that her husband cheated on her. Sounds like your husband's level of anger over your affair may end your marriage, this is understandable and it's unfortunate but it's your fault op. Trust in a marriage is very important and once broken can be impossible to restore. He sounds like a good guy, too bad.
Maybe the other spouse should be told, but that is NOT the OP's responsibility.
Maybe the other spouse should be told, but that is NOT the OP's responsibility.
Disagree. other spouse should be notified by op or op's husband. Other spouse's husband is not going to tell her. She has a right to know her husband had an affair in order to make an informed decision on her marriage and her health.
Somebody nicer? He's not the one that was unfaithful that is if this is even true..
Actually, none of us knows anything about the poster's marriage. I don't really think we can "know" who's "nice" and who isn't, who's made mistakes and who hasn't, and what has happened over the course of any given relationship based on a single post.
I disagree with the "somebody nicer" sentiment myself in light of the cheating but really...we don't have any idea what their relationship has been like. None at all. Well, except for a few quick sentences thrown out there on a message board.
Actually, none of us knows anything about the poster's marriage. I don't really think we can "know" who's "nice" and who isn't, who's made mistakes and who hasn't, and what has happened over the course of any given relationship based on a single post.
I disagree with the "somebody nicer" sentiment myself in light of the cheating but really...we don't have any idea what their relationship has been like. None at all. Well, except for a few quick sentences thrown out there on a message board.
Well that is true and we probably never will but I still cannot condone cheating, but yes you're right.
Somebody nicer? He's not the one that was unfaithful that is if this is even true..
Yes I agree, but what he wants her to go through is not nice. If there is a problem in her marriage, they should sit down and work it out. They both need counseling. This is not an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth culture.
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