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Old 05-15-2016, 05:42 PM
 
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Questions:

So you would be happy to "settle for" a woman you are not attracted to just to have a girlfriend? What exactly do you have to offer her?

Do you have any idea what a real relationship looks and feels like?

What advice or support have your parents given you regarding your mental illness?

Finally, are you on the spectrum by any chance?
Attraction can develop over time. I don't need to be initially attracted to her to fall in love. I have a cute face and will treat her right.

Yes I have an idea what a real relationship looks and feels like.

I cannot talk to my parents about my problems. I have too much pride.

Not autistic at all. Just extremely shy.

 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:43 PM
 
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I'm a great guy once you get past my initial shyness. I'm also pretty cute.
Wrong. If this was true you would have at least one friend and women would approach you regularly.

Something about you is repelling to people.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:43 PM
 
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This ****ing guy. Just another in a long parade of damaged young dudes who spent their formative years in front of a screen while their peers were out there getting life skills.
This is true, but the only reason I spent those years in front of a screen was because I was too shy to do anything differently. I'm a victim of my genetics.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:45 PM
 
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Wrong. If this was true you would have at least one friend and women would approach you regularly.

Something about you is repelling to people.
I think it's my demeanor that repels people. My anxiety gives off depressing "stay away from me" vibes. I cannot control this. If I smile, it just looks forced (because it is). And when people do talk to me, I am very shy and awkward at first so a lot of time they just assume I don't want to talk to them and leave me alone.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:45 PM
 
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I love how the OP's mythology about himself (I suck and no one likes me! I'm cute and a great guy! I'm a head case that can never hold a job! I'm just shy!) is evolving with each new post.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:47 PM
 
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Not sure, if this guy is fo'real, but his life is a mess. What sane woman would even consider dating him? And the funny part is that he only has his eye's on hot women, Lmao
I never said I only want hot women. My only requirement is that she asks me out. Don't care if she looks like Shrek.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm a great guy once you get past my initial shyness. I'm also pretty cute. If I had a gf, my career ambition would skyrocket. I'd do whatever it takes to make her happy (other than make the first move).
So, you think having a woman is going to make your life grand for you?

Obviously, you have no idea, hehe.

Even if I gave you a women, you wouldn't know what to do. You cant even make yourself happy; no way you can make her happy, FemaleSlayer.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:48 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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I'm a great guy once you get past my initial shyness. I'm also pretty cute. If I had a gf, my career ambition would skyrocket. I'd do whatever it takes to make her happy (other than make the first move).
What is it that makes you a great guy? So far, you have told us that you don't have any ambition and you can't make any friends. It also seems that you are fixated on beautiful, average, and ugly women. As if they are not people but merely objects for you to classify according to their appearance.

Surely you have appealing qualities too. What are they?
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:50 PM
 
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(I suck and no one likes me! I'm cute and a great guy! I'm a head case that can never hold a job! I'm just shy!).
It's true unfortunately. I assume you're a woman. You probably will never understand what it's like to be a shy male. I'm happy that you don't too. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemies.
 
Old 05-15-2016, 05:50 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Attraction can develop over time. I don't need to be initially attracted to her to fall in love. I have a cute face and will treat her right.

Yes I have an idea what a real relationship looks and feels like.

I cannot talk to my parents about my problems. I have too much pride.

Not autistic at all. Just extremely shy.
Don't you think your parents are aware you have problems?
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